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How can I find out if I have birth brothers/sisters?

I am adopted from Chicago IL when I was adopted and yes I do wonder what life would be like and stuff like that.. I have never physically talked to my mom other then when she sends me a gift for my birthday and I never have met her and I don't really plan on it.. but I don't know my dads last name or where he lives or really anything about him.... and I know my birth mother doesn't have any kids but I don't know about him... how do I find out if I have siblings??? Should I just leave it alone? Or let my curiosity get the best of me? Comment your opinions!!

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Stay in touch with your real parents. Tell them you love them and simply ask some questions. You should see your mom, she might want to see you.

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I don't know... I cant with my dad cus I don't know how but I do with my mom but my adopted mom thinks it would be too hard for her
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rayraysboothang4eva2

search for them on the internet or ask your parents to take you to the place you were adopted and ask the people there

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you should let your curiosity get the best lol id want to know too if i were you :)

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cool :)
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yup yup :D
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go to ancestory.com to find you ancestors and the just go up from there IT DOES COST MONEY TO DO SO BE VERY CAREFUL

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youarebeautiful
I tried that before and it came up as my birth familys family
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OH SORRY but try what "rayraysboothang4eva2" said
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Personally, I would leave it alone - for now. Sounds like the father is out of the picture for a reason. Once you are an established adult and are strong enough mentally to make your own choices, then you might want pursue this line of inquiry.

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youarebeautiful
Im not sure what you mean...
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You are attempting to find these people for good reasons, but they may not be good people. Wait to find them when you are older so you will not be taken advantage of.
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Oh.. okay umm my birth mom is really nice I don't know about my birthdad tho
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Ask your mom

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She wouldn't want me to do anything
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who, ur step mom or biological mom
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youarebeautiful
adopted mom
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