My husband shows no interest in me. Should I take it personally?
He is 40, I am 38. I'm no different than I was 5 years ago. All he wants to do is watch TV and play games on his computer or phone. He will kiss me in the morning before we leave for work and tell me he loves me but that's it. Whenever I try to get close to him he acts like I'm hurting him(saying his stomach hurts and I'm leaning on it, or he has a headache). He is overweight and drinks and won't seem to do anything to fix his low sex drive. He doesn't even want a massage. He hasn't initiated sex in 3 years. I always do and he maybe gives in once every 2 weeks(and always in the morning). Not sure what else to do. I've tried everything. From changing my appearance, to talking to him etc....he also doesn't have any friends and always fights with me when I make plans for us to go out with mine. He doesn't even walk the dog or help me with much. Guess I need to just accept it. Don't make enough to live on my own, and I'm old and not skinny(but thinner than I was when we first got together and he was all over me).