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What should I do?

I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. i STILL get nervous with if he'd leave me because he's always around girls. one is even my old best friend but she talks to him more than me now. with me being so nervous it causes arguments. I'm not just nervous with us though. i am with everything. even the little things. I've tried to calm down he just still doesn't understand. i care about him alot an our a relationship. its just hard when he gets mean with me about how I worry. I've been a nervous, self conscious person all my life. i don't know how to change that. what would you do?

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First of all you only care about someone to the point that you know you will be ok if they DO disappoint you. Second thing is you create what you fear by insecure actions. If you fear someone is going to hurt you, you will act in a way to make that happen through your fear. Understand that he is trying to tell you and show you that his staying with you is up to you and how you are presenting yourself. Third you should probably break up with him and find out who you are and who you want to be then aspire to change into that person.

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Here are a few things u can do
1 confront ur worst fear
2 ( how old are u ) it helps
3 break a few rules ( talk to Masterofcod for rules 3-4 k)
4 get detention

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