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mnguy

I have a 20 year old friend that wants to hook up with a 15 year old girl. What how do I stop them?

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15 will get ya 20...

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Very good answer !!!
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Only if they have sex.
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wickedpissah
"hook up" = "have sex"
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Yep... And "hooking up" definitely means doing something illegal in the situation... A 20 year old male or female has absolutely no reason to be "hooking up" with a child.
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I personally see no problem with that, but that's just me.
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Glad to know you have no issue with a grown person messing around with a child... There are names for people like that you know... Like, child molesters, pedophiles... But ok.
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Minji

Threaten to call the police on them.

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Tell him he will go to jail. Easy as that.

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It's only illegal for them to have sex.
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wickedpissah
"hook up" = "have sex"
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That is what 'hook up' means.
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That's kind of gross. I think Minji is right.

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Call the boys in blue.

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mnguy
I think they wear brown around here. I get what you mean though.
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Oh....
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Kick in in the you know what's! He won't feel like doing anything for at least a day! Gives you time to figure out a more permanent solution

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I like your style.
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It's fine as long as he doesn't have sex with her and she wants to be with him. I honestly think that age doesn't matter. to a certain extent anyway.

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You can't stop them. All you can do is advise them both what they are doing is illegal and pray they understand

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It's only illegal for them to have sex.
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wickedpissah
"hook up" = "have sex"
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Just remind him that it's statutory rape - & he'll be a sex offender for life, on the record. It will ruin his life. Possibly hers, too. And since he knows what he's doing, he can't claim she lied to him about her age. He needs to be with women his age. 15 is borderline pedo territory for an adult.

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That will only happen IF they have sex. If they wait until she's 18 it's perfectly legal.
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Sorry, you said "hook up". Usually this means sex. If you mean "date", that's different, true. Either way the best thing for him to do is just stay away for now. The temptation to have sex may be too great for both of them.
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(Sorry, the person who posted the question said, "hook up", not you.)
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wickedpissah
"hook up" = "have sex"
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Yup, sure does.
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wickedpissah

Dial 9, then dial 1.... and if he's still acting like an idiot, dial 1 again.

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Tell the girls parents !!!

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good idea haha :)
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I think it might work ,
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I remember my brother telling one of his daughters suitors...."if you ever do anything to my daughter, I will find you and when I do find you, your gonna wish I would have called the police".
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Good answer !!
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Theres really nothing you can do, other than try to advise him and talk some sense into him. At the end of the day they both are going to do what they want, If he gets caught then he is going to wish he listened to you..God bless :)

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As long as they don't have sex it's not illegal.
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wickedpissah
"hook up" = "have sex"
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Yes thats true but he did specify and say "hook up" as wickedpissah said lol.
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Where I'm from, "hook up" means to date. He should have just said what he meant.
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Tell her dad.

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Great minds think alike !!! Lol !
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Dads have a way of solving this problem without a lot of complications.
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mnguy
Thats a great idea.
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inform him about all the consequences if they wind up having sex

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Hmmm.... I'm going to have to say to tell her dad or his parents. And they might wind up having sex, and that's going to be your friends fault if she gets pregnant. I don't care if they use condoms, it's a sin! You should threaten to say you're not going to be his friend anymore, explain to him WHY it's wrong, tell both of their parents, tell your parents, and that's all I got. I honestly think all that stuff is really gross!!! :-( Hope it helped!!! :-)

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What makes it a sin? The fact that you don't approve it? Because last I checked we're made to reproduce, just because there is a difference in age, doesn't mean it's wrong.
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just leave them alone

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Its an illegal activity until you are married so you should guide your friend and knock some sense into him before he gets into some trouble.

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Since when is it illegal to have sex before marriage?
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good question...
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The only thing about it that's illegal is the sex with a minor part. But I don't even find that wrong, as long as it's consensual.
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