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BieberIsMyLife

Whats the difference between a *crush* and *love* ?

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Crush:
attracted to them physically.
want to spend time with them and have fun
want to kiss them and do things with them
want to talk and be near them
have affection for other guys
can be ok without having to see them for a while
can't see marrying that person any time at soon or at all



Love:
thinking about that person all the time
wanting to be with that person forever
can see yourself marrying that person and being happy
always feel warm inside while you're with them and safe
can fully trust them
don't see much interest in other guys anymore
can't see yourself having sex with anyone but your lover and still be satisfied
attracted to that person both physically and emotionally
can't imagine living without that person

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thankyouu , i think i might be love then :)
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A crush is infatuation. Love is being obsessed with them body and mind, willing to do anything for them.

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ahh okayy :) thanks for the advice <3
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That sounds pathological.
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What u mean milburdine :)
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love for someone you do not know is a crush.

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I think a crush is something that can come and go weather love is something that will come back around and always have you in their heart and may never leave and will never forget you love is way stronger then a crush i think love you can explain but a crush you cant explain u just like someone

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your maybe right , i liked this guy for about 2 years now , and we kissed and cuddled when we wernt together , i said i love you and he said it back and every since he deys it and lies about us , is just so hard and evertime i want 2 move on i cant cause all i think about is him everyday :(
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aw i know how u feel guys will never understand the more they hurt and disrespect girls the more there gonna give up or stop trying to try there best or try so hard they cant try anymore i felt like crying after being hurt by guys i thought that cared but honestly it may just take the guy you like time to realize how awesome u are and come back to talk to u and to have ur company and maybe even more :) ur really cool so i hope he realizes that and come back to u :) hold on in there cause im wishing the guy i like comes back too
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Aww thankyou , ur really sweet ,and i hope soo , its will just take a loong time lol :)
but it will be all worth it in the end :) x
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So true I think why we wait on our guys to come back to us to enjoy life a new friendship u and me just created and have fun and focus on whats gonna make us happy and successful :)
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haha yes your so right and aw :))) i cant be bothered waitiing on him anymore if he likes me he needs to come to me :)
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yeah :) im hoping everything works out for u i rather see and know someones happy :) lately ive been so down about my ex good news is what i would like to hear from a friend so im hoping for nothing but the best for you. girly :)
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aww thankyouu :) i hope every thiing works out for youu too its just takes time <3
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Thank you :)
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<3
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A crush is usually for a short period of time (lets say a couple weeks, months, etc.) True LOVE is when you have liked someone for a long time, maybe a couple years or so, your eyes and mind see no one else, and are willing to anything for them. Love is usually the stage before marriage and throughout marriage, so saying 'I love you' to your boyfriend/girlfriend in middle school, isn't quite adequate or age appropriate.

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How about if I've been liking him for over TEN YEARS already??? And i want to consider it a crush but sometimes,. there's a thought that always bugging me whether I should believe that he's my crush or maybe I'm really inlove.. Whenever I see him.. My heart beats fast which is unusual to me. And sometimes I keep thinking whether I've been played by destiny or it's just my imagination and telling me that it's only a coincidence.. And I'm really hating it..

If it is a crush, why is it different to what I feel whenever I concluded that I'm actually having a crush with other person which I think it's really a crush when I compare it with the feelings I have for him.. There's a lot of reasons for me to have a crush on this guy but I never thought of it as a possibility. I always conclude saying "What does he actually have that I would like him this way?" He's not really handsome but he's appealing to my eyes, people who usually liked or had crush on him suddenly forgets their feelings to him then they move on. How about me? I'm still stuck here and admiring him and I can't look straightly on his eyes. He's been consuming my entire mind. And I believe it's not Lust.. When I think of my other crushes, I always think it's not possible for me to marry them, but whenever I think of this certain guy, could it be really possible even if we've been classmates for 10 years even if I don't talk to him coz' I'm shy? yes, only 10 years. He's been my schoolmate for grade 1 and 4th year Highschool. And we're attending the same college. aggghh! I feel defeat, i think it's just coincidence and it's just a crush..=((

But still, please explain things to me..
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Crush is usually use for kids who loved someone when they still in school . Love is for every body all ages

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so if i was to say i love someone and id do anthing for somebody i can not have , would that mean im obsessed in him
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When you give loved you like to take some back . If you have nothing in return and you would do anything for him that he did not mention . That is a poor things to do and yes you have been obsessed him .
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ooh okayy , well i kinda not talking to him anymores :( im not bothered
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A crush is temp, love lasts

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sometimes love lasts
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If it didn't last, it wasn't love :D
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Stars ria!
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Yeh but sometimes it is , tho , maybe things went wrong and they had to end it i dont know :)
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I guess perhaps something could go wrong and they could "think" they fell out of love. But I tend to feel the other way about it. Lovely feelings are nice, but true love takes work, even when you dont' feel like it. Because trust me, the lovely feelings will not last on their own :)

And thanks boo!
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Thankyouu :)
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Beiber, love means you're willing to make the effort and put the work in to keep things from going wrong.
Make sense?
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okay seriously why is everyone having a go at me :(
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Not having a go at you, explaining the difference. Isn't that what you asked?
I'm coming up on 32 yrs of marriage. It's not always easy, sometimes we get angry but we care enough to work through it. Crushes don't have that incentive
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Ah okayy :)
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She's not coming up on you, unless you asked the question to get a specific answer :D

By the way, good question Beiberismylife

and boo I love your advice, stars
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I mean, he....?
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ahhh okayy :) *confused*
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A crush is idolize and when it's gone it's already love LOL!!!!!!!!

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The first step towards LOVE is CRUSH. If U loose you will CRASH.

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a crush is just liking someone and love is a feeling that cant be explained..!!!!

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haha ur right :)
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A crush is someone you like, Love lasts for awhile.

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Thankyou For the advice :)
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Me Grimlock says your welcome.
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hahaha :)
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love is a feeling that sickens your body when the person is around or while your just thinking about it makes you want to have the person anytime when you think about them whilst crush is being able to experience the fun in knowing that your capable of loving and feeling like you love when you meet someone stunning

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Thankyou for the best advice :)
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A crush is a rush of affectionate feelings and is a temporary infatuation with another person.

Loving someone is another whole story. When you truly love someone it is not just about the warm fuzzy affectionate feelings. That does not define what love is, when people go into relationships and such thinking that is all love is, the feelings soon fade when they read a hard spot and they think they have fallen out of love. There are many different ways to love someone, one of these ways is to serve them through hard times in your relationship.To give to them even when it is tough and you don't want to. Love is an action, to truly love someone you have to actually do it. You have to work at it, it is compromise and hard work. You have to give everything to that person, with no thought for getting something in return. If both people only gave half, there would be unhappiness and lack of love. Both have to go into it giving 100 percent. You have to be selfless and learn how to serve someone else. This is truly what keeps love alive.
So, those two things are entirely different.

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FunnyLittleFrog

A crush is someone you don't know or relate to. Love is a mutual relationship.

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depth

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Candillice

Love is too strong to break, but crush can be broken after a while

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