Ok so i need honest non violent answers: so my husband and i always end up arguing about wether its perfectly normal that guys
( in a relationship) can check out other ladies but its definetly not ok for me (& women who are in a relationship) to check other guys out. and my point of view on this is that if your partner does it why stay quiet and not let your partner know its not ok for him/her to do that, or else i/other partner will do the same. he says its totally normal and fine that guys do that cause its something natural and i say "well if its natural then why cant women do that? plus if your in a committed reltionship why would you be doing that in the first place?!?!"