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What do I do when my moms boyfriend bullies me and then denies it but I have no evidence to prove it?

For example my moms boyfriend ran into me yesterday on purpose and I hit the wall and he told my mom that I ran into him so now I am in trouble.

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On your other question you said you have been messing up a lot for long time and you need to get your mom's trust back because you're grounded and you're worried that your friends will forget about you during this time. I think you are giving this guy a hard time . Just stay away from him and act like a young lady should. You'll feel better about yourself and you'll feel proud of yourself for doing the right thing. It will become easier the more you do it.

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Good luck. You can do this. :)
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Your profile picture, name as well as your description is troubling to me..
mush less this issue..
You need to find more value in yourself than an image
Sincerity speaks words of truth and you will be well served following her and listening to what she has explained
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Video cameras will be your best friends in this case.

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You aren't credible.

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What does that mean??
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I don't believe you and I haven't even heard his side.
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Yeah.
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What does credible mean?
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She thinks your lying but yet she doesn't even no you
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If you're not credible, it means there's no validity to what you say. How do you know that she doesn't know her, religousman? She merely said that she doesn't find this person to be credible, that's her opinion and she's entitled to have it.
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I don't find most people who quickly proclaim the their religiosity
to be very credible
And I usually don't want to know them
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Agree
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I don't consider myself religous, but spiritual, but it never sets well with me when someone judges another and accuses them of judging, especially someone who has "religon" as part of their username, it's hypocrisy, and I have zero tolerance for that. Funnylittlefrog stated her opinion and she was judged for it, she's entitled to her opinion and I happen to agree with her.
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Invest in a pocket recorder. You could use it in a more discrete manner than a video camera.

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don't let him get away with it, he's testing the waters, it will only get worse. don't internalize every little thing he does, though, it will just make ur life miserable. also try to stay out of the house as much as possible (u could tell a counseler too) i would probrably either a) get a video camera (a small one) and put it up on the wall (to get it say u are going to the mall or something)or b) play like a home alone prank on him, so when u get in trouble it will be for a good reason (only do tins if option a didn't work
comment if u need more help

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He has been doing this for 3 years and my mom only keeps him around because he is the only one who wworks and can pay the bills. I tell everyone that I know but he is really good at playing the sweet and inocent kind of person. I am more than likely going to try the video camera thing and hope for the best because that is all that I can do. Thanks for the help.
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Does he touch you in any way he shouldn't
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Good luck
lol, sorry, late comment
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Get a tape recorder or ask your mom is this where you want to go with you and me? This guy is lying and I can't believe you think I'm making all this up for what because I want you all to myself ? Your happiness is important to me you should be happy with someone but this dude is deceptive and wrong for you and me wrong for us

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Record it and show that's the best thing you can do :)

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Thank you.
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Your welcome :)
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Well considering we have all not heard of him telling his side of the story just basically there is always two sides to every story like you and him for instance anyways what you should do is keep away from him when he is around. And if living with you and your mother than best thing to do is maybe have a hidden camera somewhere you and him are usually prone to be around each other and where it mainly takes place at. Now if were in your room then hiding a camera in there to record him doing something to you would be perfect, but if not then hide it somewhere that you and him are bound to bump into each other....

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kick that lowlife scum in the b@lls XD jk do you have a smartphone? secretly video tape him; have just a tiny bit of your phone stick out of a pocket or anywhere you can hide it. that, or when all three of you are together, maybe annoy him. he might pop either in front of your mom, or if not in front of mom, you'll still have it all on tape.

also, if he's ever touched/ hit you with his hand, try to sneakily put petroleum jelly on something he may handle like, idk, a fork for example. petroleum jelly shows up under a black light. You could prove, with this evidence, that he's pushing you around

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Record a time where that jerk pushes you around and blackmail him when your mom comes home.

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