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Should I text this to my crush? Text below :) I appreciate all the advice !

Text Im gonna send him: Me: Hey can I tell you something important?

(He will probably reply saying): "Ya
what happened?"

Me: Remember all the times I was dying to know who was your crush was and I talked about my crush and I would always tweet about how great #oomf was? Well I was talking about you, I liked you but you didn't really show any interest that's why I never told you anything, I was afraid what you would say to me and I didn't want to get hurt you know? I just wanted to tell you but I hope we can still be friends if you dnt feel the same :)

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Yeah that sounds good:)

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nahh sounds desperate I kicked a chick to the curb today for sounding like that :)

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Ok thanks I'll try I change it up, thanks for the advice :)
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no problem. Make it short, trust me. Us guys have a one track mind, and half way through the huge paragraph we'll just forget what it said at the start.

so just get your main point across and leave it at that <3
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Dont listen to him. Dont change it
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hahaha yeah says a girl. ^

I'm sure a guy could give her better advice on what a GUY wants to hear.
k thanks
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No.
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I think it was nice! you shouldn't change it and if you do.. change it just a bit not to much! :3
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If somebody sent that text to me I'd be like WHOA IMMA DATE THIS GIRL.
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That was sexist. Your a dumb guy, a guy would love it @nealllll
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Here. As a guy let me just say all guys are different. I would read something like that and probably start legit tearing up on my way to hug you lol
But in all seriousness something like that would be my ideal thing if a girl were to tell me something. You might not really know for a fact. But for me personally that is wonderful and if he isn't a jerk (my opinion of people remember) then he wouldn't kick you to the curb. He would simply politely decline. I doubt any guy could resist such a sweet offer though :)

Allie is right guys like me would melt like Rascall Flatts.
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no offense to anyone, but there's a LOT of desperate guys out there who would fall head over heels for this.

but guys who have options, like stuff they can't have, or like the challenge.

for me, when a girl is too avaliable it's a huge turn off.

but I guess to a guy who will take whatever they can get their heart would melt to this.

if he's more on the attractive side, just make it short and sweet.

if he's a little under average, feel free to say whatever you want cause it won't really matter cause he'll take all the complements and attention he can get.

(Go on with the hate-mail now, because I speak the TRUTH.)
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You speak your opinion, therefore it cannot be truth. I am not "desperate" and I won't take "anything" thank you very much.

To put it in another light, most guys who aren't "bitch niggas" as Pac or Katt would call them, love a girl who is thoughtful and sweet. It gives us "real niggas" some comfort knowing we ain't gonna get thrown out for the next dude on the street corner. So if you like your girls like you enjoy your games, cheating, then go ahead. I respect YOUR opinon, however I don't believe that you have any reason to be assuming anybody is desperate.
It only makes an ass out of you and me both.
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yes you should it sounds so sweet! i wonder wat he would say? hmm...

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Go for it!!!:);):):);)

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Too dramatic.
Rather, try something like: "I'm interested in you, invite me out soon."

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Dumb it down some. Also leave bits and parts out. To see if he replies and to so e jut gets it.

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Yea thats true, thanks for the advice :)
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U r welcome.
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Yeah you should

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Yeah that's good.

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Yes do it text him

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Yes you should :D

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i think u should because it sound great

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You sound great girl!

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Yes! That sounds so sweet! Good Luck, I hope he feels the same way :) <3

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Send that, and should things go well, one day he'll ask "will u marry me lol :D" through a text message. This is a possible relationship, the least you can do is start it face to face.

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good job :P

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That sounds good but think about this though. What would he think about it. When your in love you repeatedly think about that person. He just may understand and see where your coming from. If it helps then hay go for it. And if it dont, then at least I tried.

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coolliz77

i think you should shorten it i kinda spaced out half way through and im a girl so i think i guy would too just be like yeah i like you

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Honesty is a big thing in a good relationship. And it sounds dead cute! (Knowing MY bf, he would say something like: that's poetic! In a way...)

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absolutely. he would love that (and you)

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Too Dramatic !

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go for it girl XD good luck

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hazzbear

yup yup

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Sounds cute! Do it

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id say go for it because its really good. if i got that i would probably date the girl and not be offended i wold respect her even more for the text.

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Are u bi?!
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ahh ya lol.
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Nooo!!! its wayy to dramatic!

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You should tell him face 2 face, it will mean alot more to him XD, the paragraph sounds to desperate btw.

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So what did you end up telling him, does he like you? If so CONGRATS!!!!!!
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Yes! tell us how it goes!

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omg I LITERALLY did the same thing a few weeks ago but in person and he and I are still friends
P.s. Go for it

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sure yy not

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go for it. i text my crush all of the time

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yeah thats good he may end up liking you after you send that text

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Do it!

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Yeah! Wow, I would never have the guts to do that! Lol....Good Luck!:)

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yes just do it!!

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ahhhhhhhhh

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oh yes that is so romantic!

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You should not keep love hidden for so long I let my crush know I like him and he ended up liking me back Good luck:-)

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Yes definitely.

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100% yes

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yes definitely sounds good

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yes

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yes that is so cute. hope everything works out(: <3

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nicely written

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Here. As a guy let me just say all guys are different. I would read something like that and probably start legit tearing up on my way to hug you lol
But in all seriousness something like that would be my ideal thing if a girl were to tell me something. You might not really know for a fact. But for me personally that is wonderful and if he isn't a jerk (my opinion of people remember) then he wouldn't kick you to the curb. He would simply politely decline. I doubt any guy could resist such a sweet offer though :)

Allie is right guys like me would melt like Rascall Flatts



Fyi I posted this again so that the answer would donate to Susan G and so that other people could learn from this.

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Thanks soooo much, your advice Is on point :) thx for helping !
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No problem! Good luck :)
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It sucks.Why are all these fellows like this.

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