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Me and my boyfriend aren't talkin what do I do?

we have been dating for 4months and stopped talking this month

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Just text him or call him, email him, fb, ig, kik, snapchat, etc. him.
But not all of them

Make sure you don't creep him out first.. lol.

Then just say whats up...
Haven't talked in a while. You should probably come over (for example) soon.

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Trying call him. Maybe something is wrong.

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well I guess thtd depend why you guys aren't talking, mayb u should write him a note or do something nice for him and tell him that you care about him and that you want things to be different between you guys... or you could just talk to him

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Talk to him!

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Why aren't you talking to him? Well, I would apologize to him for whatever even if it isn't your fault, a lot of guys are stubborn and won't apologize. I hate that about us but it happens. hahaha

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Option 1) Start talking again.
Option 2) Go your separate ways.

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Talk to him for corn sake!

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DONT blow his phone up. it'll push him even more away. my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 and this has never happened. buuuut before I brake up with a guy I ignore them for about a week. try talking to him face to face. not over the phone. let him know that you're aware of this distance.

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what's the point of ignoring him for a week??? haha x)
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It's a primer for the break up, makes him start to wonder what's going on.
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It's so it's not so sudden. Like all of a sudden BOOM were over. It's like rising up to the break up.
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Just wait it out, and in the mean time do things for yourself.

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Iv waited for 3 months....
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Find a new bf and your old one will want to talk then

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Reach out, make the first move, and be the bigger person.

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bring some excitement. Check on him and see what's up if ya still don't talk just move on!

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Guys don't want to fell like there imposing so you have to let him know you want to talk

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