What does this guy I went to college with want and why does he lie? Can I trust him?
Started speaking to a guy a few months ago. He flew down to be my valentine. We had fun.
he was not 5'10 like he told me. He doesn't have a 6 pack. And he lied about his package. Not that I care about physical attributes. He’s handsome.
He asked me how would I feel if a guy told me he slept with 20 or 50 girls. I said that I wouldn't care if it's a random guy.
I asked him his number. 31 girls. I told him that's the size of a classroom. And he tells me he started at 16, had sex with a bunch of girls one year and a few threesomes. I am uncomfortable with all the info and tell him I'll talk to him later. Eventually, I come to terms with the number and write him an apology. And that I only felt uncomfortable because I really like him and that number just made it seem like he wasn't ready to commit. He waits until the NEXT day to respond. And tells me that I am judgmental. That it was a joke. And not to think of us as more than friends because we need to be good friends first before we can establish anything.
I got upset and told him it is wrong to play those kinds of jokes on people and then wait a day to respond. It hurt his credibility and confused me.