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Every time i have a girlfriend the first few months i feel great and everything is going okay. but in ever relationship iv had i stare at her and i get this empty feeling inside my heart and i end up breaking up with them. its not that i didnt care about them but out of no were i get this feeling every time. and i let go. and then after wards i feel heart. im just confused..

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That's a tough one to answer. The next time you're in a relationship, and you get that empty inside feeling, try to ignore it, and don't break up, instead try to hang in a little longer to see if the feeling passes. If you still feel the same, say after another month, then go with your feelings, but that way you're giving it more time and you can honestly say that you tried. I really believe, that when you meet your true love, you will just know it, and, you won't even question it.

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Wow dude. I have never heard of this. Maybe you are tring to find just the right girl.

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i think that is one of the reasons
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This emotional disconnect can happen for a number of reasons. Maybe you were scared emotionally or something happened in your past . Maybe your scared of getting to close because you don't want to get hurt idk. Or it could just be it wasn't a real connection after all .

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iv had a lot of bad relationships in the past
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Then maybe that's what it is . Just acknowledge the fact that there is some sort of problem and work at it .
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I know what you mean though about having feelings for someone then after awhile they go away .
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i heard about this, most likely the thing is you just have not found the one that makes you "tick" in a good way

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What was your childhood like? Do your parents have a loving relationship? If not, or if you were abused or neglected, then commitment probably scares you because you're afraid of being vulnerable. Since it seems like this problem really bothers you, and since the answer usually lies somewhere in your childhood experiences, it would be worth spending some time thinking about it. Good luck.

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You're a jerk. Go away.
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Hey, Mods, thanks for deleting that jerk! I appreciate it!
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You are lacking a spiritual connection.

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That emptiness..that disconnect you feel is your gut instinct telling you: ''She's not the one!!!''
God has someone special in mind for you, and when the time is right you will find her. :)

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And she must be a Christian since you are.
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