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How bad can sinus be to ignore someone alot? Pleassse plz read really need advice i dont wanna be heartbroken?

My bf has had sinus for 5 days says hes rly sick
VRY less communication, extremely late and short txt no calls or anything, although hes up and on fb. i wrote all some sweet stuff for our fourth month anniversary on fb. This mornin he was like how do u unhide an activity cuz i accidentally hid ur post... I told him how to fix it he said ok ill do it later
it seems like he's been ignoring me.
He claims hes been sleeping most the time have flu, i agree and understand but y would he hide my post
I've been worried after this 1 txt
-do i get to see whats next or do i wait(even though ive seen it before) ;)
(YES WE'VE SLEPT 2GETHER SO HE HAS SEEN ME)
Me:what u mean
Him:i knew u took a pic of me when i took a shower at ur house shouldn't i get one back
Me:no i didnt
Him:i completely messed that txt up
Me: what u meant to say
Him: idk lost my train of thoughts
Me: i thought it was meant for someone else
Him: um no why would i send something like that to someone
And then: oh never mind i meant to put the shower thing somewhere in there but messed it up Sorry MY BAD
But that text was just random
Then after like four hrs he sent : I love u soo much baby girl sleep well and goodnight<3

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Quite frankly, I don't see anything to warrant worrying. From the look of things, he loves you. Perhaps you should tell him to elaborate more on the said text if you are still concerned.

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Im trying not to worry just his ignorance and hinding my posts seems fishy thats about it and that text where hes like whats next or do i gotta wait. I dont even know what he was talking about and then he just changed the subject to the show thing i guess
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If you dont wanna be heartbroken, stay away from frivolous relationships and put your time and effort into something more productive.... Otherwise, it comes with the territory.....

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He just one of those who when sick doesn't want to be bothered some just want to not move or think and having to be nice and loving is frustrating

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Guess i agree cuz he just texted now explaining how hes feeling better.

Only thing that worries me is why would he hide my post on fb
Cuz its not that easy to just accidentally hide post and then never fixin it
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Idk can't say maybe he was upset and did something out of that he really didn't mean just one of those things don't hold it against him but when things are good again and y'all joke around you can use that we'll at least I don't hide your junk on fb
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Thanks that actually sounds good:)
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He's cheating, it's obvious
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Maybe he's cheating on. You, are you sure he's sick or is he just pretending so he can stall you and get and get another girl? You might wanna ask him about that and look at his friend list, does he have any girls you don't know about?

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Not to many mostly know em all except for this one girl who had been liking everything of his
He used to lik everything i post now nothing at all but doesnt like someone elses stuff either
All i'm wondering is how to approach him with that..
Be like "are you still happy? "
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Yes that would be a good idea, but you might wanna talk to that one girl and ask her if she knows about your boyfriend, don't tell her your his girlfriend unless she already knows, which she probably wont
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I can't say his cheating is obvious possible yes but you have to give the benefit of doubt or the accusations will most assuredly bring about a break up
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Mhm as i asked him hes not cheating just sick but still kinda distant calls me crazy when i said do what ever ur doing then text me so i asked why im crazy he said cuz u think things are important then u! But when i asked him if hes still happy bla bla he was like "ofcourse i am:D" but then asked me who this guy on my fb is cuz hes all over my statuses commenting.. I told him hes just a friend from school do u not like it i can ask him to stop! hes like nah just thought id ask whats goin on.. Maybe that could be the prob..?
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Im afraid he is cheating on you. Ignore him a bit.

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Sounds like he's cheating to me, sorry

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Let me elaborate, I don't think those texts were meant for you. A common mistake we have all made, accidentally texting the wrong person. Also, you mean to tell me you have not seen him at all because he's sick? Since when did any kind of sickness keep gf's and bf's apart? Never. You should bring him some medicine and soup and see what he's up to.
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Thats true but he did thought i took a pic when he was taking a shower
Idk he says his car got wrecked and hes sick like a dog been having a bad week
I saw him last friday he got sick on saturday
All he says is he has been sleeping and is stressed cuz of his car
He replies in ages i tried doing the same thing to him short replies didn't seem to affect him but he got short oo with text and replying in forever
So i just thought today that i should just maybe nicely write him that i understand hes having a bad week and ill be always there and that i love him it was an hr ago still waiting for his reply
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The truth of the matter is, when you are in a relationship you know the other persons behavior patterns, after a while, when behavior patterns change, that usually means something's up. Whatever you do, always trust you gut instinct. When something doesn't feel right, Then that's your instinct telling you something's going on.
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Yes thats very true he did reply and i finally asked him if hes still happy... And he said hes happy with our relationship other then that hes not happy with the sickness hes going thru so hes probably sleeping all the time from medication i might be over reacting so i am just gonna give him some space now and reply a lil slow even though everything is fine now but just to see if he cares
Thanks for ur answer:)
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Good idea, you're welcome :)
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He sounds like he likes you a lot. Dont worry. He is sick and maybe the meds he is on making his judgement wrong. Take him some soup and have a talk.

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