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How do you stop from being friendzoned from a girl that you really like?

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There's no way to escape the friend zone. If she put you there, it's for a reason.

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tell her how you feel

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The 'friendzone' doesn't exist. If a girl merely wants to be friends with someone of the opposite gender without having to have feelings for, then why can't she?

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Don't be too forward starting out. Briefly get to know her, talk to her, and eventually... be a man and tell her how you feel. Girls love courageous/brave guys! (: Best of luck.

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tell her your true feelings about her. Girls like when guys do that it shows that you care. And if she really is your friend she will tell you the truth. And sometimes it depends on how old you are. How old are you anyways?

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just be a man and tell her how you feel

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you are on the curb. move on and forget about her.

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OMG, all this douchebaggery!!
Do NOT tell her your feelings!!
That is so frikkin' lame!!
To stay out / get out of the "friend zone", your approach should be bluntly romantic. You want her to know from the first moment you're not interested in "friendship", but that you want a romantic relationship with her. Now if she comes back with the dreaded "I want to be friends" line, you can either keep up the romantic heat... Or move on.

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kokowi

Honestly, this is a tough one because of the truth. If a female merely views you as a friend, you can be the kindest guy to her, you can treat her out and even buy her presents, but if she just doesn't foster feelings for you beyond friendship, then it's best to accept that she is not for you. If she likes you, then time will reveal that through her actions. You can always risk telling her how you feel, and maybe it will bring you closure to know how she truly feels. At the end of the day, you can't force someone to feel a certain way about you and, even if you could, I doubt you would want that. Maybe one day she will see you as more than a friend, but until then, just accept the reality of the situation.

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thanks for the advice and im 13
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what if she avoids me
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kokowi
No problem. Well, if she avoids you, then that just shows that she's uncomfortable with the situation. I know that's not something you would like to deal with as it's not a pleasant feeling. Maybe give it more time before telling her how you feel and trust your instinct. You can always kind of sense if someone likes you.
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well she is my friend but she can tell i like her so she avoids me like i said i really like her
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kokowi
Oh, well, if she's avoiding you, don't confess your feelings. Just remain a good friend to her. I know it's not easy, but you just don't want an awkward situation.
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thats any time im near her
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