you could be 30 and not be ready to be a mom. The thing is that there is no manual to being a parent. Most people just wing it, however, if you truly feel like you would not be able to provide for the new life, then you could think of adoption. I am not going to lie to you, my sister has three kids and she is struggling, but she tells me all the time that how much she loves my nieces and nephews and how she wouldn't change a thing. She says more often than I want to hear it that being a mom is a gift and the most rewarding part of a women's life.
Are you already pregnant? Give it up for adoption. Or have an abortion. Since there are many couples out there desperate for children, I would say adoption if you can get through the pregnancy. Have amniotic tests done; don't try to put a "birth defect" child up for adoption.
Take responsibility of ur mistake and i hope for the best for u and your child i see alot of girls who have had babies do a good job taking responsibility of there mistakes and honestly im proud they do shows what a adult and grown up you can be and you just half to create a plan and schedule and go by it it maybe hard raising a baby but if ur willing to do it unprotectively then be willing to raise the baby its hard but if girls in high school can do it so can you.
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I don't mean to seem harsh or anything honey, but you should of use protection if didn't while having sex or should have been on the pill or shots for birth control. And if already pregnant right now in which it is just what it seems of how you asked the question then you can't really do anything about it, but just wait and give birth to a beautiful baby boy or girl and maybe if have not change mind of wanting a baby then give into adoption. As bad as I hate to say some other family will gladly take the child and I hope take good care of he or she. And if were forced or somebody like your lover wanting you to get pregnant then have a serious talk with them about it and have them to reconsider on the fact of you not being ready to be a mother yet and am sorry to hear about this too I just hope everything works and turns out good....
well no going back now your going to be a Mother so gear up life will go on you do what all people should do in life work and study hard make your future easier by working hard now. the life your child will have is entirely up to you. Make your baby proud of his or her Mom, and you proud of your self. Love your Baby he's your gift from God. Congratulations and good luck. you will be an awesome Mom and a success in life. God bless
I think that after a few months, you are going to begin to love the little thing growing inside you. I've seen it happen so often. Girls decide that they are going to give their babies up for adoption but when they hear that cry and see the face they just can't bring themselves to sign the papers. Some even when they have their first ultrasound and hear the heartbeat decide right there that they'll keep it. Everything happens for a reason. This baby was meant to be conceived. You should give it a chance.
ell, you can get an abortion, or put it up for adoption. But to me, the right thing to do would be to keep it. At least try. If after awhile you reallly suck at parenting, which I doubt you will, you could put it up for adoption then. But there will be people there to supporrt you and help you along the way. You can do it. Imagine, how you'll feel when that baby comes and you see it for the first time....
My ultimate advice is to keep the sweet life that is growing inside of you. If you decide to not keep the baby, adopt it out, and you will live the rest of your life in peace that you brought a sweet beautiful baby into the world and somewhere he is living happy and sound.
It's going to be alright. Believe it or not you might not think you are ready but as soon as you bring home your baby your mothering instincts will kick in. It's fine and I believe that you can handle it. :)
Well honestly you should have known that this could happen you 19. But i would take a test, if your not then take this as a reality check, if you are either grow up and open your heart to your child. If you dont feel that you can handle it you can still give the baby a chance at life by adopting the baby out, so many people would love 2 be in your pasition and be able 2 have one. But mainly dont leg any one pressure you, its your choice so might be best 2 sit n think long and hard because that 1 decision will decide you and the babys future
It's okay to be stressed!!! That's part of being a mom!! If you feel in a mothers position that your baby will not have a healthy happy life than do adoption..but that is a last resort..you will love being a mom once you see a baby to love!!