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Should you change who you are for a girlfriend/boyfriend

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If changing for the better..then yes.

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No...i wouldent

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No, because if you do, you're automatically dooming the relationship to failure. You significant other needs to love you for who you are.

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it depends on the person if you are quiet and really have no personallity yes but if you are you stay you

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only if she's worth it if she's a bitch dump her ass to the curve

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Never...!!!!:)

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DukeCityMuscle

Only if the change is to become more fully who you are. One of the best parts of having a boyfriend or girlfriend is how they can help you bring out your best qualities, and you can help them do the same.

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sometimes, if your doing something bad and your boyfriend doesnt like it then yes you should change for him but if you have to change for him for no reason just for him wanting you to change cause your not the type of girl for him, then no he should accept you for you

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I stopped smoking weed for a girl. I think it was a good change. 2 months puffless! Depends on what the change is honestly. Also take into consideration that if you break up will it be worth giving up what you like to do.

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If it's a part if your personality: no
If it's a nasty habit: yes

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No but if it's a good change then yes. They should love you for you though.

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No. If this is the right person you'll naturally florish and they will change your mindset and you wil grow and "change" for the better. But if it is to bend for what he/she likes you are only going to hurt yourself. Be who you naturally are. If they really have an interest, its you and not what they can make you.

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No, they should love you for who you are.

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The person should like you for who you are. If you're required to change then you know they really didn't. But if it were a good change like to quite smoking then that doesn't count.

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No that was my biggest mistake.. Though my relationship is awesome and beautiful. I'm finding it very hard to just be me at times. But at the same time I made the choice to change,it was for the better.!

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No, (s)he will live and accept you no matter what if (s)he really cares.

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No, if he really liked you, he wouldn't want you to change

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