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Why am I feeling like this? (Advice... Help)

I have been feeling very sad lately and I also have been feeling like I have no purpose here in life... I can laugh and all but behind all that I'm just sad and tired of life... I even broke down crying the other day i don't what to do...How would you guys handle this?... Thank you if you have any questions I will answer them later...

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I'm sorry your feeling that way. I'm a pretty strong person mentally and emotionally , but I have broke down and cried to right in front of my principle because at the time I lived with my mom I never felt so alone . I even thought about ending my own life telling myself peace would come if I did because at the time I was not at peace and not happy with who I was what I looked like and or how other people treated me I felt like a piece of trash that wasn't even worth being thrown away . Something hit me when I was laying in my room crying until I felt like I couldn't cry anymore . I though you know what maybe just maybe life will get better I had the smallest glimmer of hope . It's ok to cry or feel unhappy with your current situation , but you just have to wipe away your tears and pick yourself up.Your a smart girl life only gets better and the sad feelings pass don't worry happy times will come . I think as young adults we just feel lost because we are lost and that's ok we just have to find are way it happens eventually I'm starting to and I feel great . Just hang in there I'm here if you need someone to talk to.(:

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Well stated and very mature answer. Star for you!
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Thank you that answer came from my heart and from experience .
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Shane, I find myself giving you stars often. You have a depth beyond your years. I'm glad you are here on Ask. You have so much to contribute. (:
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Thank you that's very sweet I'm glade your here to . I enjoy getting advice and hearing from everyone .
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I get a lot of advice . From different people life is like a football game I am the player on the field I can only see what's in front of me , my peers are like the coach you guys can see from the sidelines and tell me what I'm doing wrong and what I can improve on thanks for the nice words and words of wisdom. (:
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Yes that helped a lot thank you so much...
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Of course you know I'm here for ya (:
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Sorry if this is off topic, I'm not even sure how i got here but does anyone else like toblerone?
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You mean the chocolate?...
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It sounds like your going through a time in your life where you are lost. I hope you feel better :)
oh yah and always remember YOU do have a purpose in this life. God don't make mistakes.

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Thank you..
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no problem. take care
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The feeling of having no purpose in life is something we all feel at some point. We must continue on until things become more clear in life. We all get "Lost" sometimes, we just have to try and find our way back. May it be through some sort of experience or learning, we must talk with others to get through times such as these.

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Thank you bambino..
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You.......are.......welcome..........Monserrat...........Dolce.............7
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Im feeling the same way but i think about how better i wanna make my life and about how i want my future to be fun and exciting i think about my goals and dreams and ways to get there so i feel happier and like i have a reason to live cause ill be living the fun life that i created for myself and planned i also try watching funny movies to make happy i write lyrics about the way i feel i create ideas that have never been done before and set a goal to accomplish them like one day i wanna have my own tattoo shop i also express my emotions threw drawing and sketching

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Hormones probably. When you grow , and develop , your attitude on life perspective chances a bit .. thats why ppl say that teens are the worst .I don't think suicidal thought but sometimes I feel like I'm under pressure when I don't need to be

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Hey.. Maybe you should read your own profile quote.. Which I like, by the way.. Sometimes we all have days like that.. But you gotta remember life is a gift. There's no receipt, you can't exchange it for something else. Find something to look forward to, have a goal everyday.. 86,400 seconds in every day.. Make the most of them:-)

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Happens to most of us, when we reach a certain level and feel like nothing; I would just say it's a phase or cycle. What I did was I kept doing the stuff I loved doing, like watch funny movies/shows, play basketball, listen to music, etc. ; Also, exercise does help, just keep going trough the days, and keep your head up, at your most miserable days, maybe listen to music or take a nap. Remember you have a purpose here in life, and your young. This might sound selfish, but think about all the people who die everyday and wish they could live longer.

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Thank you leone..:)
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No problem! :) here when ever..
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I feel you. Im the same way. These answers help me a lot! :-)

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Hmm. Maybe tell a trusted one about your problems. This may be a sign of depression.

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sometimes I think our emotions are the last frontier of the mind! they are often difficult to understand. throughout the day, most of us interact with a whole lot of people and we have a lot going on. at times, it can seem overwhelming. in those times, I stop and sort of catch my breath.. I think about the people I love me and also those I love. I think about what is important in my life; God, my family, my friends, my job, school, tennis (ha), I think of a whole lot of stuff. I know that if I live life, one day at a time, I'll be fine! if I do the next right thing, I'll be fine. if I reach out to that person who might need a little encouragement (YOU), then I can maybe help you..and myself; by being a little better person! this is; what love is. if you have those feelings, as you mentioned, I would go to someone you trust absolutely and tell them, talk and listen to them. it could be your parents, a school councilor, a pastor, or anyone who you trust. and never, never, never, NEVER give up!!! stay safe and make it a great 2013...;-)

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Depression, I know from experience that it hurts you emotionally. it does get better, don't try suicide, I just do things that make me happy, listening to the radio, hangin out with my friends, it will help. I've heard of something called humira, try it

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Give your life to Jesus. he will give you a peace and joy in your heart that surpasses all understanding.

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Sounds normal actually. You just have to find your purpose. I know you can do that. Hang in there and take care of yourself until you do, beautiful girl.

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Thank you..:)
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I hate to hear this but I know you'll be better in 5 days ( I just know). We are your friends here at Ask and look how many responses you've received . Why? Because you're always one to help all of us. Now it's time for us to help you. Hold on and I promise it will get better very soon. Make sure you get enough sleep. Most times this happens when we just have too much to do and not enough time to do it in and our mind and body gets too overwhelmed . Rest. We care.

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Nicely said :)
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Thank you friend.
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Thank you sincerity.. :)
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Buddhism helps me. Also try finding a special person to 'dance' your brains out with and forget the sadness. Who needs a purpose when you have biology. You were evolved to do some things so go and take advantage of the young body you have.

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You're so sweet Obvious and very good advice.
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Yes I agree thank you..;)
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I'd dance with you but I have two left fingers on this key board ;)
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Thx sin, I knew I could help with words like these :)
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Haha thank you...:D
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No prob, I used to 'dance' with this girl, for years, who looked a lot like you and man could she dance. I was always almost too hot after we got done because her moves were so stellar and she was so passionate.
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Nice seems like a special girl... :)
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Sorry I didn't respond earlier my activity box only gives me ten...
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She was a great lover
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If you don't mind me asking... Then why are you not with her anymore?
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A few reasons but commitment issues for one, she was my first and I wanted to know what else was there
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Oh okay...
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Sorry, nor what you were expecting?
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No it's all good... I know what you mean..:)
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I followed you because I really like the way you think by the way...:)
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I like your conversation style. You seem like a smart girl :)
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Thank you..:) you seem like a very smart guy haha
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Thx. You seem so familiar to me. It would make me uneasy if I didn't think you were also charming :j
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Haha... Really... Familiar how?..
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Like you remind me of her in your looks and even your taste in books. I'd been questioning if you were her for a while in this conversation but I'm pretty sure she didn't move to Texas and you must be younger than her.
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Oh okay I got you I knew what you meant I was just curious.
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You are cute dolce ;) enjoy your day
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Hehe thank you... Have a good weekend...
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I think your one of the brightest, compassionate and delightful young person I've met here.. Try not to get too emotionally involved in this very temporary time..
Life is highs and lows... but we spend most of our time luckily between those..
Know you have an entire family here for you :)
And get feeling better soon so I don't have to answer anything too seriously :)

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Haha okay thank you blades...:)
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I'm joking of course about the last part
anytime you need a friend you have one here... I do hope your feeling better today:)
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Yeah I knew you were thank you..:)
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OH MY G... you're the happiest girl and don't break yourself dolce... what's up? **face punch**...something is in your thoughts that's hurting yourself...spit it out..go out a bit and try to have fun.. **Bruce lee bike kick** watch big bang theory again...:D

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Haha thank you :)
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haha you're welcome
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I'm so sorry that you're sad. A wonderful source of comfort when depressed is prayer to God and drawing comfort from the scriptures. One scripture that has been especially helpful is Psalm 34:18 which says, “Jehovah is near to those that are broken at heart; and those who are crushed in spirit he saves.” He sees your suffering and wants to help you.

I hope you'll feel better. A good article to read is "Can the Bible Help Me if I’m Depressed?" found at http://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/questions/bible-help-depressed/

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There is a small chance that it could be a sign of depression or maybe you have something heavy on your mind that you have been thinking about or that could be bothering you. What I do when ever I feel down I pray to God and I like to be able to talk about it with my best friend. They have both been a great help. Everyone gets that way every once in awhile. I have this thing where I happen to worry all the time but my best friend is always there to calm me down and also knows just what to say. Everyone needs Jesus in their life. Take the time to talk to God open up your heart to Him and I know that He will be there to help you. May God bless you !

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Thank you and I haven't been very close to god simply because I don't even know what to believe in anymore...
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im sorry 2 hear u got dem blues.. i spen alotta time a year in. TX and i wish i was there instead of this freezing cold American North Coast! i wish I was back in Houston or Galvaston! it sounds like u may have a touvh of what we call "cabin fever" it a type of depression caused by lack of sun light. its a lack of vitimin D. and thats only broken down in the system by UV rays from the formentioned sun light. a cure for this is 2 go 2 the fake an bake, tanning beds or booths. it really works! they may be bad 4 a person but in moderation, you'll feel energized and like a whole new person! bene Dio. bouna fortuna chicy. ciao

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I am terribly sorry to hear of how your feeling, but you should not be thinking of yourself as not having a purpose here in life you should be thinking positive thoughts and not putting yourself down and even if it may not seem like it you are loved by people. It seems as if depression has took a hold on you, but can be took care of if you are to have somebody close to you and talk to about how you feel, dance to some music with somebody or alone which ever one you prefer, shout into a pillow it supposed to help, take a beautiful walk outside and take some deep breaths and try to relax. And I sure hope you start to feel better too Dolce....

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Thank you.:)
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Your welcome! =)
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Buon giorno, com'e sta mio Amica? Molte bene? ;-) hey chicy, I wrote a short story Alices haunted house in the response 2 your last post... It wont let me post it...? is there a limit 2 how many words we can write in post? do you know what 2 do so I can send the story 2 you? lemme know on my post of my questions bc the other 1 still has the story on it and I dont want 2 erase it b4 I get a chance 2 copy it on paper...music...? thats a great question with SO many answers! I dont just write stories. that was only a whim 2 see if I could do it. What I really write is songs. Im influnced from artist all over the board... i'll give you a list in next post. Ciao mio amica
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Hi Rossie, how goes it? So, do u know if there are limits on this site? I send some long answers sometimes on here. If u would rather I send story 2 e-mail, I will. So, where do I send it 2...?
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100% relate.......why are you feeling like this? because a pretty accurate description of your day is "get up do some school then go to work" exactly like me.....its probably getting repetitive and VERY boring.....you dont have meaning? i feel the same but i can assure you that you working every day at the clinic is helping out your family a ton. and dont worry about it when you are out on your own sh!ts gonna be awesome good luck

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Yeah thank you...
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was i rightish
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Yeah..:) kinda...
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damn what did i miss i still have a minute to edit hurry!!
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Lol no it's hard to explain...:)
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well i missed it anyways lol but my ears are open
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Haha I don't know how to explain it on here... I just feel overwhelmed stressed.. I guess..
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ditto. its okay you are gonna be a success because of all this experience so young.
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Thanks...
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Again good song...
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well its eminem remember?
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Ha yep yep...
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i forgot the songs you wanted me to see i got time now if you tell me
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At night by Benny benassi or Dave spoon...
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kk give me a sec
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i liked it i heard another song by that genre like 2 years ago lol http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z5chqYZ7ZeU
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Oh yeah I love Benny benassi...
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i play it on tap tap revenge four :O)
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Haha...tap what...
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tap tap revenge four its just an awesome game
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Oh...well thanks for cheering me up...
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of course anytime
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All people have these feelings from time to time. If your not feeling better soon it might be wise to speak to your doctor. Don't let this go on to long. We all need help some times, and there is help out there. Feel better soon, I'll keep you in my prayers.

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i didnt see this till now im sorry dolce...you know im always available for you if you need to talk ok

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Thank you I know..:)
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