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My mate is lead to believe he has made a woman pregnant abroad, she wants to keep the baby but he lives in UK, advice?


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If he isn't sure he is the father, he can have a DNA test done to ascertain the truth once the baby is born. If she doesn't agree with this, then it probably isn't his.

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If he wishes to help that women support that child then he with most likely be traveling back and forth between you and her. If you would rather have him forget her then say that too him but be calm and mature and listen to why or why not he agrees with you.

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In the UK mate means friend. HE is talking about his friend.
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Get a DNA test!

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get a dna test. a few moments of ectasy can turn into a life long consequence. why is he having sex with someone else other than you? what happened to faithfulness? you want to be with someone who fools around? no sugar coating here. dont make someone a priority if he thinks of you as secondary. its a shame people trash relationships. if he is the dad, then support the child. its not the kids fault he was made. take responsibility and support the child.

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His mate, meaning his friend. He even specified UK.
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It's not my partner it's my mate..he does not want child obviously..he is distraught about it..DNA will be the way forward but that's along agony wait till its born..stupid bloke I know :(
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Other thing is she called him from abroad saying she was. But only has completed a home pregnancy kit which showed positive...lets hope it's not accurate..
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You've got good advice here for your friend...just wanted to point out to American users "mate" across the pond means pal, buddy, friend...not a romantic companion.

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Lol. Imagine if an actually person called their boyfriend or girlfriend their "mate"
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*actual.
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Ikr!
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DNA test

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