If someone gives you money out of the kindness of their heart and takes it back without telling you is it steeling?
Technically, yes - because it was yours, and they took it out of your possession without your permission - whether they gave it to you out of their heart or not.
if its your parents and your not 18 and still living in there house then no but other then that yeah to me it would especially if they didnt say anything
Yes, it is. Mostly because it was a gift so it's like taking a present back