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How do I break it to my best friend that I'm moving? :(

So I'm moving in 3 months and I haven't told my best guy friend. (We are nothing more.) I have no idea how to tell him. He told me that he wants someone who won't leave and will be his friend for a really long time. I said that I would be that person. He has a very rough childhood and is still struggling. His other best friend, Scott, moved away and he was completely devastated. How do I tell him that I'm going to be moving? :(

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That's so hard and rough, my best advice is to #1 tell him face to face. dont text,call,write a note or anything like that. Tell him when you both have alot of time it will seem less rushed. Also tell him you couldnt do anything about it really, and that he is still your best friend. depending on where you are moving to, keep in contact because you need to keep that friendship going. Lastly, when you tell him, let your feelings show because at that point its good for things to get a bit emotional, it shows how much you guys are friends... dont break the friendship. ever. he should understand. real friends understand. good luck <3

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Introduce him to some new girls!

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Maybe tell him that u might be moving and then when it gets closer to ur moving date tell him

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Break it to him easily and I am sure that he'll understand you leaving his presence.

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Did it work? Are you already there? what did he say?
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Just tell him in the nicest sensitive way possible, he's gonna need to know. Might as well get it over with

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You need to tell him. If you don't, he will just be worried and say that you can still be friends (use FaceTime and messaging)

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Show her your ask.com account :)

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