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Ladies help. how do i get a girl to forgive me after i broke her heart

we were dating on and off for five years and i did the ultimate wrong i cheated. what do i do i don't expect to get her back but i wish to talk to her again i love her. it may not make sense to those reading but i didn't mean to cheat i do love her and will do anything for her please help

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She should not WANT to talk with you. You cheated. End of story.

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move on

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If I was her, I probably won't take you back. If you love her then why did you cheat?
Text her, tell her how much you love her and how wrong/sorry you are.

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i have and its a long story. ive got her to alkt to me a couple time and its not as simple as just cheating i lost my virginity to another. i felt like crap when it happened i told her my self
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it was strange ive broken three promises in my life one of them were to her. i hated my self for it i wanted her to hit me yet when i asked her why she wasnt yelling all she said was you made your bed now you lie in it. then she told me she wouldnt hit me beacuse she would only hurt herself
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Well, I'm sorry to tell you this... But, you messed up BIG time. You might just have to prove to her that u can make it better. Good luck
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....... tats the thing i dont know how
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If you did everything in and out to try to get her back, then maybe you should slowly talk to her...
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ive gotten her to admit that she still loves me... she just dont trust me. look i know you dont know me but im not a bad guy ive never cheated before i keep my promises i used to walk ten miles to go and see her before we were even dating i hitched hiked two hundred and fourteen miles to get her moms permission to talk to her and get her parents to respect me
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ive fought fer ive defended her but i made a fatel error i know that bad thing is this sounds so stupid to me but thing that led to me cheating was beacusie i was being nice..
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Do something extremely nice for her.
Something random, but romantic/funny.
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if i was her, i wouldn't take you back

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You have taken away one of the most important things needed in a relationship...trust. Both friendships and romantic relationships need trust in order to survive. The only thing you can really do is try to explain to her from your heart what you did and how you feel. After that, it's really only up to her if she wants to know you anymore or not. (You can't blame her if she chooses not to.)

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Great answer. :)
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Thank you. :)
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yvw :)
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First write a letter tell her why you did what you did then tell her it was the biggest mistake you have ever made and tell her how you feel about her tell her she doesn't have to give you a second chance just tell her you want to be friends because you really miss her company plain and simple! Hope this helped! (: btw my bf did that to me one time he wrote a letter and we got back together! (:

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If you really loved her, you would've never cheated on her. She deserves better, and the best thing you can do is leave her alone and move on

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if you loved her. you wouldnt have cheated in the first place . you cheated which means you will do it again. and she probly thinks that. but if she forgives you . your pretty lucky. because most girls will just dump you like trash

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Once a cheater always a cheater!!! Move on and I hope karma doesn't bite you in the rump!!!

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And to all the ladies out there if you've been cheated on read the book " surviving infidelity"
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It's a lesson for u, and there's no way u would get her back, only if u prayed.

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It depends on how bad you did her...Because cheating once on her yeah she probably can get over that but constantly cheating and treating her bad she probably dont want to talk to you...

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it happened one time and i told her about it i didnt hide it
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Well I dont know maybe she'll forgive you but its hard my boyfriend did the same thing to me a few months ago he hurt me so bad but he did tell him everything but i couldn't forgive him i tried to but I couldn't and I'm still hurting and thats been every since Oct. but I still love him and even though I still love if he call me right now I wouldn't talk to him. That stuff really hurt a woman so if she do take you back be good to her...
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ill always be good to her. i love her i always will. the worst part is when i told her she looked at me she didn't even seem angry she just looked like well like she lost all her respect for me.i asked her why she dint hit me why she didn't yell.i wanted her to i wouldn't have stopped her. i hated myself i despised my self i acted like the people i hate. i wanted her to hit me yet all she said was you made your choices now you have to live with them. i told her i love her and i always will i told her she has a choice she can tell me to leave and she wont have to see me again. but if she needs me i will always here for her no matter what.. I've done things she will never know about just to be able to see her I've hitchhiked 260 miles just to see her.its bad she will talk to me every now and then but its not the same as it used to be. if i could just get her to open up to me like she used to. i miss being around her i miss hearing her heartbeat i miss hearing her sing i mis seeing her smile i miss her. im sorry about your boyfriend if you would have every told me something like this before i was the one who messed up i would have told you to leave him and never look back. i hate when guys disrespect women i,ve got into fights over it many times but if you believe he is sincere just hear him out. just let him talk to you. sometime people do the most stupid things and don't know why that's why we learn for are mistakes im not trying to defend my actions its stupid i had to make the mistake for my self and not learn from everyone elses but if he loves you and visa versa just let him talk..
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