With the x box 360 is there another way to get access to use the services like Netflix, the music and ect. without getting x box live?
No, to connect to the Internet or purchase apps, you have to have Xbox live
There is currently no way of watching movies on Xbox 360 without Xbox live. However, you can listen to music on Xbox through a portable music player. Visit http://support.xbox.com/en-US/xbox-360/audio-video-setup-and-use/play-media-from-portable-media-player for more information.