U rule ur life...... so live life the way YOU would want to.... don't do what others want u to do.....do what U want to do...... believe that u r best the way u r..... and NOBODY is gonna change u....... care about things U wanna care.....then there won't be any tensions an stuff..... be happy.......:]
Take time out doing stuff you love to do or have put off or have always wanted to do,hang out with friends more often,hang out with family and shut your phone off and take time off of social networking sites,join a sport or a activity or get a job to keep busy.
Just be yourself. If boys like you, then they like you and will hopefully tell you. Just live your life the way you want to, and when a boy comes into the picture, THEN make a decision. Until then, be yourself. Guys will like you for you. Most guys like when girls are who they are and don't try to be someone else.
You realize that a boy in your life is something you want, not something you need! You don't need a male to make you feel whole. You don't need a male to prove you can get one, you don't need a male to make you feel any " more than you are" because you are just as good with one or without one. A male is just someone who a smart, confident, girl wants to add to her already perfect life, when she knows she wants companionship, and is ready to sacrifice her complete independence and be accountable to a partner.