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How to express my love for him

I am an 18 year old woman and is in love with my childhood best friend who lives nearby . We were best friends since kids(4 years of age). But recently i find i developed feelings for him but not sure whether he likes me or not. I tried to push my feelings inside many times and tried to continue normal friendship as before but failed. I am scared to approach him directly coz i fear his reactions that he may be shocked and it may affect our friendship. But inspite of repeated trials i found i am not able to behave with him normally as before, eg like i blush on seeing him etc I tried to ignore him but that failed. I feel he is also feeling awkward on seeing my change of behaviour towards him recently. i am not getting peace of mind bcoz his thoughts distracting me continuously. Also this is the first time i am having feelings for someone. Shall i tell him or shall i push my feelings inside ? Serious suggestions please

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If it was me I would try and get him to make the first move. For example, if he was outside mowing his lawn get looking super cute (not overboard though... You are outside, not prom) and take your dog for a walk past his house. Or squeeze yourself into some shorts and a bikini top and wash your car. Anything it takes to get him to notice you! Flirt too! If we go back to the walking your dog example, when you walk by his house you can playfully say something like, "you missed a spot" and it may possibly lead up to a conversation! Also message his on Facebook everyonce an a while! Best of luck!
xoxo

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shall try...but i dont know why i am feeling very nervous.Actually i never had such an experience before . So feeling nervous about what his reactions will be since i am his childhood friend .
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let him know how you fill regardless of his actions and if he's upset he's not a true friend secondly if you do not want to do that write a letter but never send it it will help get all your feelings out

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I think the best thing to do is to try and spent most of your free time with him. You can also suggest some trips or outings so that you can make a strong bond and observe if he is feeling the same.

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I think u just see deeply in his eyes like u r in the sea...
its a big impression for someone other

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i am feeling very nervous i dont know why . Never had such an experience before maybe for that ....i dont know why. feeling little shaky.
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