What do I do when a good friend is making a bad decision and you are really worried about her but you just dont know what to say?
It would help a LOT to know what the "mistake" is......
go straight up to her & tell her that you're worried.
Ask her if this is really the best decision to make
Let her make those decisions, she'll learn from them hopefully. Once i intervened and told my friend ... and we never spoke again because i was honest . Let her be.