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Is it bad if i ask out a girl most people would call fat and ugly?

i think she is buitiful but when i tell people the ask "why her" and i just wondered if its saying something about me. and if so is it a good or bad thing it says about me

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No, what could that possibly say about you that is negative? It could show that you are less shallow than other people.

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ares15

Nope. not bad at all

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Go for it bro. why should you care what other people say? that said, why should you care what i say either.

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Why worry what other people have to say about her? If you like her for who she is, that's all that matters, Don't listen to what other people say. Do it because you want to, and don't let peoples opinions bother you and keep you away from asking her.

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no if not its a good thing because you see past the outer shell

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thats pretty easy for me since im not much of a looker myself
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im sure you look great along with the girl
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Why should you care what everyone else says? Live your life the way YOU want to live it, not the way everyone else wants you to live it. It's your choice after all not theirs. I think it's great if you would ask her out. It is saying something about you, that you are different in a great way that that girl is so lucky to have you if you ask her out. Don't let what everyone else says influence the way you act.

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It says that you see more deeply than most people see.

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Do it! People ask me the same question, because my crush is "mean". (I just think he says what he means) "Why _____" they say. Because I love them is always the answer.

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Nope not at all bro

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No not at all... Don't care about what others think...

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No if u like her then ask her out it doesn't matter what people think if she makes u happy then ask her out its simple

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its fine but just warning you she will probably think its a mean joke at first trust me people do that a lot good luck :)

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Not at all!!! Date, & love who ever you want! The soul is what matters! Would you rather be with a pretty girl who is mean, or a chubby girl with a stunning soul!!

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Thats a great answer :) So true
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If you like her for her personality, or just think she's cuter than what everyone else says - that's great! But if it's just some kind of fetish - I advise explaining how you love her personality - more people would understand. Anyway, happy for you

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It's a great idea if u really do like her

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No

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Who cares what they think? If u like her, go ahead and ask her out!

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As long as you truly love her then what others think shouldnt matter. If you really like her then just ask her out and forget about what others think. Good Luck :) <3

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Yes

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no, if you like her

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no not at all.........................ask her

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if you like her then why do you care about what other people say.. go for it boy.!!

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NO totally go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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to each is own. everyone has someone who loves or likes them your that for her. someone needs to so no. its not bad. it does say something about you, that you care for people for who they are and thats a quality all girls look for,. go for it and screw everyone else(: good luck<3

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go for it. Love isn't about what the person looks like, it's who they are inside. You would give that girl a huge morale boost too. If you truly love her, go for it :D

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no I think it's sweet ;) if she's fat and ugly than she needs a great guy like you to except her for what's on the inside

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don't listen to those haters

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Don't listen to others... maybe it's just that they are afraid or jealous that if in future that girl is yours they'll really be ashamed of themselves!! :P

Chill......

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who cares how she looks if you love her enough people's ideas and words shouldn't bother you. good luck man.

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it doesnt matter what other people think of her. it only matters what you think of her. you better love her a lot because of the way she looks she may get judged you need to let her know that you love her and that thats all that matters, goodluck.
hopefully this is helpful,

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It Is NOT Wrong What So Ever. People Have Diffrent Opinions On Everything. And Honestly If You Think She's Beutiful Tell Her, Tell Them. Let Eveyone Know. Dont Back Down. You Obviously Have Some Sort Of Connection With This Female. You Must Like Her Or Admire Her In Some Way. Show It!! Dont Worry About What Other Say Because Honestly, Their Jerks! I'v Been There Done That. Life Isnt Full Of Sweet People. Go Ahead. Ask Her Out. She'll Be Speechless, !! Good Luck. :) Ohh And NO It Shows Nothing At All Negative. If Anything POSITIVE! She's A Lucky Little girl

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It's not bad at all! If you really love this girl then it should not matter at all what other people think of her. It is not all about looks, some people have yet to understand that thought... Good Luck :) :)

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no, if u like her then go for it!:)

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It is definitely not a bad thing.... If you really like her then that is all that matters. My personal experience: I am dating the hottest guy in school, he is the quarterback of the football team he plays basketball and baseball and he can be total a-hole when he wants to be. But he can also be the sweetest guy that I would ever meet. But he thought I was pretty. And I am a heavy girl and i don't think I am that pretty. And I get called ugly and fat everyday of my life and he still liked me. And when he asked me out he lost a lot of his friends because of it... But he stayed with me because he liked me for who I am and because I am different and i'm not afraid to be who i truly am. And me and him have been dating for 4 years........... So if you really like her go for it and ask her out and make her yours, and tell her how much she means to you every chance you get and i guarantee that you and her will last a long time. :) Good Luck!

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dont let wat other people say effect how u feel about her

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Noo. It would be a bad thing to not because of what bullies say about her.

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Nooope

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Go for it. You like her don't listen to anyone else just listen to yourself. Make her feel beautiful stick up for her. Love her . Make her feel wanted .

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