Should I attend a wedding that my niece has now decided not to have our son and daughter as ring bearer and flower girl?
A year and a half ago she had sent a picture of a flower girl dress that was very poofy, and I commented that it was beautiful, but that hopefully our daughter would grow out of her dislike of poofy or itchy dresses. I joked how I was the same way as a child. She didn't talk to me for 7 months, even after multiple attempts to email and call her. Since then, everything has seemed fine, but she never mentioned the wedding when I saw her. I'm brokenhearted, as I've been imagining our children in her wedding, only to find out from someone else that my niece had other plans. I'm so hurt, and I'm not a fake person. I don't know if I can go and put on a good face, plus watch other children be the flower girl and ring bearer.