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Why do some Girls only like the Jerk?

There's this popular jerk in my class who always attracts most of the girls when all he does is put them down and be rude. I on the other hand am the class clown who also is a nice guy ( as we know - the court jester never married the princess). I am about average in looks, so I assume at least SOME of the girls wouldn't want the Jerk, but no. He's also a jerk to me(lol moment, he's like a foot and a half shorter than me) and sadly, no punches are ever thrown, so it's all just words. And at the end of the day, Girls still love him (did I mention that he isn't much more handsome then I am?) I just want to know, why do girls love him, and how do I get them to like me?

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Cause we were raised to think, "if a boy is mean to you, it means he likes you."

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Hah that's true!
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It attracts them I think...

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I got 99 problems and a b*** ain't one, if you're havin girl problems I feel bad for ya son.

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Maybe he is more confident than you are..? Or perhaps he is not as big of a jerk as you may think. OR those girls are just trying to be friendly.

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'Being friendly' isn't exactly the same as being someone's gf...
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Obviously they can't ALL be his gf.
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It is the same way with girls. The popular ones are always the ones to get the guys. I think it is because the "lower class" people are harder to get. So no one even tries to go out with them.

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What Larkeuz said. We were taught at a young age.
Plus I think its the thought that we want to change them. So its kinda like there a challenge for us to try and change them. Unless thats just me..

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Some girls think that guys being mean is attractive. Or they are idiots. But that happened at my school too. All of us girls were crushing on this huge jerk. Or they don't know he's a jerk

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girls are weird just be your self and try talking to girls who dont fall for him

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Because woman like confidence. And although that guy is a "jerk" he's probably the only guy who also has that strong male confidence ! If you like a girl and want her , you have to show that confidence too, but also be respectful :) if you're overly nice and trying they won't like that.

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That's sadly both ways, guys always go for the terribly mean girl, or the un-believably fake one they think is nice, even though she is just as mean, & leave the good genuine ones behind!

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You are right... Sadly
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Bro this has happened to me millions of times girls always go for the jerk because either they think they can change them or the guy has that confidence that girls are looking for but some of them just like being treated that way some girls are stupid and yea I know it sucks but sooner or later he will probably end up I'm jail so look on the bright side bro *brofist*

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Because they're "teenage girls" they don't think straight...
I'd say don't try to impress them because they don't deserve that,
wait for the perfect girl to come.
and maybe it's because u don't make it easy for them to communicate, be a little open ;)
hope it helped :)

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Bcuz they like the chase (stuipid girls). Don't b so hard on urself; the right girl will come.

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It is a social status thing

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