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It seems like my mom hates me.I 'm 4th oldest of 11 kids and shes always so hard on ME.and everything I do pisses her off.What can I do?

She has been like this as long as I can remember.All of my mom's old friends and our family say that I remind them of her when she was age,so wouldn't that make us closer?I will admit I haven't been the greatest child,but everyone makes mistakes.Also when I was born,she and my father were having some problems and were planning on divorcing,but then she became pregnant with me,I just don't understand why she's always angry and full of hate towards me,I love her and just want to fix whatever it is

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11!?,oy gevalt! ithink i'd be mad all the time too, if i wasn't too worn out.seriously though, all this "i love them all equally" is bull! all parents in their heart of hearts have a favorite(s). but doesn't mean you can't build a great relationship with mom. i don't know how old you are but usually once a kid starts working and especially once you get out on your own things start improving greatly. usually kids and parents get close enough that you'll understand what&why about the bad times. sometimes we never get those answers,the trick is finding a way accept and live with that,which i'm betting you could if need be. hope not! you sound like a good kid . best of luck.


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Talk To Her & Tell Her How You Feel :)

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After 11 children your mother is tired and burned out. She needs your help. try to help with the load of raising 11 children you could help with laundry, cooking, clean up and keeping the younger ones happy and help with their naps and other things like getting them dressed and off to school. Try this and see if her mood will change. I think you will see a change right away

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Is dad still around? If so, he needs to pitch in too and I don't mean making it an even dozen either!

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