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How do you stop a person from bullying another kid?

there's this girl in my grade at school that no one really likes. I try really hard to stick up for her but sometimes it backfires. she's mean to me and some of my friends and I don't want her to be really sad and feels like no one likes her. what do I do?

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Stand up and tell them not to and be nice to the person who is getting bullied

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tough one since shes a jerk to you........just tell a teacher let them deal with it

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Just give them advice in how to improve their lifestyle. Either that or just do nothing cause she is a jerk o bully to others.
The choice is yours....

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You should not talk about her.
But maybe you should give her some space and maybe she will feel a little better.

I was once in this kind of situation and I did the same thing...

Now we r bestfriends and will never leave each others sides for about 5 minutes :)

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I'd ask her what her problem is especially when you've been sticking up for her. Tell her, if you'd like to be friends great. If she doesn't want to be friends with you, just tell her that if she changes her mind you're willing to try. She may be mean because she's afraid to open up and trust folks

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You should be really nice to her and see how she treats you and other people before you judge her and if she's a nice person tell your friends to stop being so mean to her and for them to start acting their age not their shoe size

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Don't stick up for her if she's mean to you. >:/ if I was you I would just let then bully her.

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What you are doing is great thing keep it up and don't give up on her when ever you see her by herself keep her company talk to her and try to get to know her more. All she just wants to do is be loved. and maybe a friend to stand by her side. I know that on the inside she really appreciates what you have been trying to do for her. Don't ever back down on her. I know that you guys will end up being good friends if you just give her sometime to open up to you.

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Wait till she cries or starts cutting herself, because when you hit rock bottom, you aren't picky about who you let help you out. Until then just watch.

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That is cruel. Heartless even. :(
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Well, I don't mind helping people, but when they act like a jerk to you - that's not right either.
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Yet again, I am a cruel and heartless person, I've always been one of those people who have no problem with revenge and punching back. I really don't know why, probably isn't one of my best traits. It just angers me that they would be rude when you helped - you didn't do anything to them, so my solution was to wait until they wouldn't be rude when you try to help. Cold I guess, but in the end you still get a new friend
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Well, yes, but you shouldn't wait until someone is depressed to help them.... I'm sorry, I didn't mean to be offensive. I have a tendency to come across different then I mean (not one of my best traits).
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No, you were just speaking your mind, but thank you for the apology. I am a bit cold, I just want you to know it isn't without reason.
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ok.
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okay, okay soo, like walk in front of everybody and be like "what the f***k is going on here" and walk away :) haha jk...

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Perfect lol
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haha, right? :)
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Kill them jk stand up for the kid so the kid learns to stand up for hisself/herself

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You stand up to the bully. I do it almost daily... Also, don't stand up for a bully being bullied unless you think they will stop being a bully.

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