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Everyone is telling me i should change myself for a guy should i ?

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Nope. Never change for anyone.

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no

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Never change yourself for anyone if they don't like how you are then they aren't for you.

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Obviously everyone's going to say no.

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Cool story bro.
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Apply some cold water on that burn son.
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Probably not...

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No because you will never be good at being someone else. You should just be you because that's what you're good at.(:

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Well, everybody is going to say no, however, this situation depends, how would you change? Would you change your personality? Or something positive like, dieting, stop being an alcoholic, or even stop doing drugs? If it is any of the last 3 things I said then yes, change not even for this guy but for yourself! But if it is your personality, don't let anybody change you!

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time for some quotes: * Life is funny. Things change, people change, but you will always be you, so stay true to yourself and never sacrifice who you are for anyone.~one direction's Zayn Malik * Don’t ever let a guy make you feel ugly because no matter what you are beautiful with or without him. ~ one direction's Liam Payne * This is me, take it or leave it. If you don't like it, go home. ~ Cher Lloyd * Cool is overrated...be a geek for what you love.~Bridget Mendler. and one more, just for laughs: * (Holding up pig in a blanket!) This is called a pig in a blanket. Otherwise known as a sausage with biscuit dough around it. Laugh at me if you want, but I'm just being logical! (He laughs himself, the other boys join in until they're all ROFL)~ one direction's Liam Payne.

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No never change yourself for anyone be you

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Never

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This could be a wake up call? Like maybe by the fact that you could work out more, diet, Use acne treatments? Etc. You can change your appearance but never change the inside. :)

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No. Just wait one day you'll find someone who realizes how great you are.

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Stay strong no

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change for no one

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Please don't change

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EVERYONE WHO SAYS NO, MAYBE WONDER WHAT THEY ARE ASKING THIS PERSON TO CHANGE? If you are being inconsiderate, change that. If you are being rude, change that. If you are hurting yourself - through either a knife, drugs, or something else - change that.


Their can be good changes...

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Exactly what I said in my answer! *High five*
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No unless your cutting or something like that

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no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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depends how much u want to sacrifice . or how serious it is.

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Never change yourself FOR someone, not even a best friend. If you decide to make a change, make sure that it is a positive change that you want to make, or you will most likely resent the person you changed for. If a person inspires you to change, that's great! If a person wants you to change because they're concerned about you, then it's something you should put serious thought and action into. If a person wants you to change for selfish reasons, that person does not deserve you because you're smart enough to know what is right for you and to find people who will uplift you for who you really are.

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just be yourself is what you should do first but if the change is for the betterment of becoming a better you then why not..

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NEVER! he'd only c the pretend u, not the real one.

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if you need to change yourself for a guy, then he doesn't really love YOU does he? Stay as you! the right guy will come along and he'll see what an amazing person the REAL you is and he'll go...WOW!

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no you should never ever change yourself, for anyone

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If he doesnt like you for who you are, hes not worth being in your life

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Never change for anyone. Always just be yourself, so that is a no don't change for a guy. They should like you for who you are if they don't like you then they aren't worth worrying about there are plenty of nice people out there to worry about that one then

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why not, I have

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Depends. If you're gonna change for the better hell yeah do it! But if they want you to be a tool or something tell them to shove it.

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never ever change yourself for anyone

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no because your are unique and if a guy can't love you for you than it isn't meant to be

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