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my boy friend and I only see each other at lunch that's it I only get a hug , it seems like he doesn't like me how do I know and what to do?

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You ask him instead of society. Like have a deep and meaningful, discuss your issues. Or you do and I do with mine... Skype his butt off.

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Skype his butt off hehe I like how you said that but he doesn't have one he's at practice so I don't have time to text him or anything
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Well, Hmmm. That's tricky. Not the getting skype, skype's easy to get, and it's free. The practice thing is tricky, because you don't want him to feel guilty for doing it and you don't want to give him and ultimatum... Yeah. I'd just chat to him and tell him how you're feeling.
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Ok ill try thanks :)
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You tell him it's bothering you that he's only spending THAT much time with you. Don't you two talk at all about your relationship?

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Well he's so sweet , he sen me good morning text and good night text , when I come see him he's always smiling and what not , he says he's lucky to even have me , but I just don't see it ...
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If I only get a hug at lunch you get a slap :P
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lmao !!! That's to funny ^^^
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those are BS until he does anything that would make you think not like how you're thinking right now. You're obviously being deprived of something and not being treated to your liking, why not speak up?
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hahaha... you'll get way more than a hug my lovely. ;)
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Because I don't want to be the one to look like I'm saying somthing wrong , and that I just don't want to mess up anything ...
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then don't complain.. IF you just want to maintain and stay the way you guys are then don't complain.

BUT if you want to make a stand and let your voice be heard in the relationship too and not be treated as a second class citizen who just deals with what she has and doesn't make change because she's just too afraid to jump the cliff, then just stay quiet.
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You still have to communicate. Look really down, tell him how you're feeling and then maybe say something along the lines of 'it's not your fault, it's probably just me...' and waffle of from there. Like tell him how you're feeling but don't say it's his fault. People don't like receiving the blame.
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that's being humble what alicemay is saying. If it was me? I'd aim to get his attention by making him realize that you are getting bothered by what he's doing or lack of it. Sometimes if you play around it, it gets confusing for the guy and he might end up misunderstanding where you're getting at.

Get his attention. Get your point across. and LISTEN. show love in all of those steps.
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So no more being humble from me? You want me to just go beserk? Hahahaha. You wait Mr, it's gonna explode next time it goes off. Hahaha.
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Nah.. it works for us because we compliment each other that way. if you berserk it'd probably have a different outcome. But go do what you want, handle yourself the way only you can. I understand and know you better now so I'd be able to gauge you better.

I like trying to appease you. Swaying back to my arms. It's kinda like chasing you, which I find sweet... ;)
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Wahahahaha. When you get here and I see you I'm just gonna look at you, wink, and run in the opposite direction.
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hahaha just don't hide. You'll be pretty hard to find. ;) and when I get to catch up to you. You're gonna be in BIG trouble.. ;)
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Ohhhh. Sounds... hmmm. Good?
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lmao I'm to weak at you'll two ! ^^
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DEFINITELY good, to say the least....
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you can do it weird lady.. just go on and talk to your guy. If he really loves you. HE should AT LEAST listen to what you have to say.. Go on. text him now. REMEMBER, to show him love all the way, get his attention. and NO I don't mean. to show him your b0obies to get his attention.
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Char_webby... what does 'lmao I'm to weak at you'll two ! ^^' mean? Hahaha. It's not clear to me... Hahaha. Maybe I'm stoopid.
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Hahaha. Punkz love does not revolve around b00bies!
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no I was talking about laughing wise ! >_< I can talk to him , just wanted some advice unlike your helping the only thing your doing is flirting !
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it means like I'm too weak as in laughing , because reading what youl are dying is just to funny :)
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Oh we're always flirting. Hahaha.
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Well? she is my girl.. the least I can do is flirt with her. After all, I do love her with all my heart. and we do talk about everything. So? anyone should give you any sound advice. I think we can give at least a decent opinion to it.
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she LOVES it too.. heck! I love it too when we're flirting... makes me want her that much more... ;) RAWR! ;)
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I didn't say you couldn't that was just disrespectful about what you said . and I'm glad that you love her , happy for you guys . . .
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wait, what, who's disrespectful?
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exactly HOW was I being disrespectful?
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Saying I'm to weak to talk to my boyfriend?
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Saying that our relationship it stronger is a little bit undermining.
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well you are... otherwise why ask the question in the first place?
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I think that's just what he picked up though, because it was really confusing. Just yeah. Just... Alice the peacekeeper is struggling over here!
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you need to understand girls foreal !
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you were needing to understand guys more to get through to him, so here I was.
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Arun understands girls thank you. He's pretty clever.
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and I wasn't saying in any way that our relationship is stronger than theirs. I said WE can have an opinion on it as it is an issue most in relationships get into. The part where you don't say things to each other when something's already bothering you.
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I didn't say he wasn't ? And understanding guys theirs more not all the same so how can I know then better ? and that's cool.
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I'm actually laughing. This got dangerous pretty quickly!
Ohhhh. Tomorrow's the swimming carnival! Gonna get me some corn chips. Yummaaaay!
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See right there? right in the middle of your sentence you tend to blur our reality and somehow manifest a blackhole of a sentence that sucks up the information of your thoughts into it... geez...
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Yeah wow. I had a noodle scratcher there too. Do you talk to your boyfriend the same way? Like I'd smile and nod at you if you did and like... pretend to have band practice and shmit.
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Bahaha. Is it obvious to see where I gave up being diplomatic?
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Char, you might not have meant it, but your sentence, is pretty wide open.. so? anyways good luck with your dude and you.
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Seeing a boy at lunch only, does not make him your boyfriend.

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Y'all actually need to talk, make an effort to see each other. You didn't know that?

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I do try , but we both have practice after school .
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Maybe this isn't the best time for a relationship for you guys if you don't have time for a commitment like that...
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yeah I understand ...
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Good luck.
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Thanks .
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Its immature to have a relationship like. Live and love life with out steady boys and get a good education .

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