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How come whenever a girl is mad at me and I ask why, they always say: "You should know". Then they never tell me and I say sorry for I-don't-know-what; Half the time I didn't know that I did anything wrong? What do I do?

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SeventhNation, welcome to the world of women! Haha. I'm not sure why, us girls, think guys should be able to read our minds. Girls think differently than guys, just like guys think differently than girls. The problem comes, when we girls, think guys think like us. If whatever you did, was done by another girl, she would more than likely know exactly what the problem is, but since you're not a girl, you don't know. (We are confusing creatures!)

My suggestion is, when she's not mad, tell her you want to talk to her. Explain your situation. Tell her, you don't know why she was upset, and if you don't know why how are you supposed to fix it?

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She ignores me after I ask what I did...
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That's why I said, give her some time to cool down and think about it. Then try asking her. Don't do it while she's mad. That will never workout in your favor.
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The thing is she holds grudges for a longg time. She does for everyone.
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Pay attention, or have a talk when they are no longer mad to find out what it s.

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The girl is always right. Period. I always just apologize for whatever I supposedly did.
I don't know why either dude,just accept it. It makes life so much easier.

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Funny thing about this is. You're making yourself seem weak in my personal view only because sometimes it's a good thing to prove a girl wrong trust me I am one :)
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Problem is Gator, we aren't always right. LOL. It's nice to feel that way, but honestly, we aren't.
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There's no pleasing females.....
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CHARISMATICENIGMA
never i mean never take defeat. my girlfriend and i once got in an argum,ent, well twice, my dog heres it and takes my side, he is a chihauha and he is 1.9 pounds. he waits till 4 am and pisses on her head, so one morning i wake up, still mad, go to leave for work and i went to touch her orehea and its all wet rusty is at the end of the bed and im all like, rusty my man. im not kidding its the greatest thing ever.so i kiss her on the cheek tell her i love i ll see you later, i yell out rusty pisse on you buy quickly run out because she threw a lamp at me. but this happened twice.
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Thank you!!!
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yup, so now if i ever get in an argumemt and rusty hears it, its gonna be taken care of.
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Tell her that you don't hav time for the guessing game your to old , unless you realli do knew what she talkin about .

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she wants you to understand her.
so try to understand her, think that if u were she, how u felt at that time.
and ask her calmly and politely what happened exactly (tell her to describe)....

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lets just say a guy is never gonna be perfect! but if you want to stay in a relationship you have to pay attention to everything!!! so when she means you should know its something that offended her or something think about it a little more...

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Just say sorry and go on with your life! It will most likely never be found out by you. Or you can just tell her "No, I don't know," and she might tell you. Girls, go fig!

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We usually say it because we have explained the problem or whatever even if it was in a very obscure or confusing manner. All I can say is that if you don't know... sorry goes a long way.

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Hi random. My "sorry" is in your question/comments. I would like to say it again here. I'm sorry. I truly am.
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