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Lack of intelligent vocabulary.

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You use abusive language about 1D, lack of intelligent vocabulary? I agree with you
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No, I simply state the facts, you just need to have the intelligence to comprehend.
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Some "facts" are abusive. Get a life, man! (Should I put this in simpler terms for you to understand?)
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facts are facts
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Very good Ashley. Always be ready to defend your beliefs.
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Here ya go, in your language ... "Whaaaaaaaa! I can't take a joke! WHAAAAAAAA!!! You're such a big meanie-head! Whaaaaaa! You're sooooo mean to my favorite no-singing losers! Whaaaaa! I'm such a spoiled little tween girl! WWHHHHAAAAAAAAAAA!!!" ... Hahaha grow up, child.
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@hunerdude: Doesn't mean you should say them
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facts are important, therefore we say them.
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@Tony737: Some jokes should not be made. Also, I wasn't calling anyone names. I never said I liked them, I said that your comment about them was abusive. I'm not spoiled, nor am I a tween. You tell me to grow up and you're the one calling names, throwing everything out of proportion and being immature. I don't think I'm the one who needs to grow up.
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@Hunterdude: My answer is still the same. we don't need to state facts like that.
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Haha you're the one coming on here whining about a joke, about a silly boyband I made weeks ago, this question had nothing to do with it. Get off your high horse, oh majestic one and learn how to handle a joke. I mean, if this is too much for you then how do you expect to handle real life?
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I did not whine, I commented on your hypocritical statement. This question has EVERYTHING to do with it. I, clearly am not on my "high horse." You seem to be though. I can deal with one's stupid comment, but I found it ironic that you had answered this question this way.
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Yes, like I said, it's above your level of intellectual comprehension.
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There you go again! Now you imply that I cannot comprehend your idiotic statements! Get off YOUR High horse! You, clearly, are unable to comprehend my statements.
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Then stop proving me right hahaha
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Proving you right? Wow, you're more stupid than I thought. Excuse me, "Sir." I don't have time for someone who clearly can't comprehend anything I say.
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Hahaha see what I mean? It just keeps going right over your head :-) This is fun!
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I do admit that I do enjoy a good argument once in a while, but it helps when the opposite person has a good argument which you clearly don't, so therefore it makes no sense to continue this discussion.
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Yes, your argument IS quite lame "Whaaaaaa you're a meanie-head to OneDirection on the internet!!!!" HAHAHA
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I never said that. Wow, you seriously can't comprehend what I say
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Good answer, tony. :) very true. I happen to find your 1D jokes quite amusing :P
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Not in those words, I'm just translating for you because it's over your head.
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Shay, that's because you have a sense of humor ... unlike SOME people around here! haha :-)
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@ashley-If you actually know any abusive people, you'll see that jokes about a boy band, aren't remotely close to abuse. That's just absurd.
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I don't need you or anyone "translating" my comments. You clearly can't translate or understand anything I say and I would be very surprised if you understood anything anyone else said.
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Well thanks tony :P lol.
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@Tony737: I have a sense of humor which you clearly do too, but unlike mine, your's is sick.

@Shaylen: I know plenty of abusive people and Tony's comment was clearly abusive, not on a large scale, but still it was abuse.
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And the fact that you're taking this seriously means that yes, you DO need translation.
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that's your idiotic opinion, not a fact.
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Awww, that's so cute how you think you're the smartest person in the room just because you can't take a joke, as if that makes you better. As if you've never punked anybody or anything, yet I'M the hypocrite! Hahahaha get real, kid. Now if you'll excuse me I have to go take a "One Direction" HAAAA!
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I never said I thought I was the smartest person in the room. That's your assumption. Although, the way you're acting, I wouldn't deny it. Unlike you, I try not to be abusive to anyone, not matter if they deserve it or not. By the way, you ARE the Hypocrite. YOU get real, if you can even comprehend this message.
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And yet you started out this whole thing with ... "Get a life, man! (Should I put this in simpler terms for you to understand?)" ... Like I said, a hypocrit on a high horse. And no sense of humor either.
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Whatever, dude. You just keep saying the exact same thing. You aren't worth my time.
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Haha see what I mean about your lack of intelligence, you think that sentence above was already stated, when clearly it wasn't. You're so angry that you can't see straight to read what or understand what I'm saying, all because I made a joke about 1D weeks ago. Haha you're so cute when you're mad :-)
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Wow! Can I just say here that making fun of a boy band is not abusive? It's not. There is a difference between poking fun and abuse.
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Correct! Abuse is when you mentally torment somebody in person, you'd think people would be able to differentiate between the two.
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I didn't understand my last comment at all. I'm not angry at all, by the way. I've already tried ending this conversation three times, don't you think it's childish to keep this argument going?

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Then why do you keep coming back? Oh right, you answered that already haha
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BTW, ya gotta love that Freudian slip ... "I didn't understand my last comment .." ^ HA! :-)
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Yes you would think. People can say some pretty nasty things on here but there is a big difference between words exchanged on a screen by strangers and someone verbally attacking someone in person. On here you always have a choice whether or not to continue. You don't always have that choice in person.
Most everything I've seen you say on here is good natured, not mean spirited. Some people take things way too personally. Some don't recognize the difference between something said in fun or something meant to hurt.
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I agree, and I think it's because kids these days are overly sheltered and pampered.
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@ashley-"and that's your idiotic opinion" do you not see how ironic you're behaving? Abuse is the act of using unkind or cruel worlds to put others down. What you're saying says that you know little about abuse. Band jokes is not abuse towards anyone. Everyone is entitled to their opinion.
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WoW ! I missed a good one ! Dang ! I was watching Wyatt Earp and missed this one ! That's what this site is : opinions ! Knowing all three of you , I know there wasn't any "abuse" here . Just people expressing their opinions and having a little fun ! I miss all the good stuff gol dern it !
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How was Wyatt Earp? Is it the one with Kevin Costner? I haven't seen that.
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Kinda seems like the OK Corral on here sometimes doesn't it.
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Haha good one JD!
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Naw ! I was watching "Have Gun , Will Travel" and " The Life and Times of Wyatt Earp " ! The old westerns . Looks like we could have used the Street Howitzer on this one ! LOL !!!
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We? I don't.

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Good for you !
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I second that.
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Because humans have tendencies to hate other humans.

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Defiant- Your right on mark, these tendencies have been going on since Cain and Able.
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Personally I think it's because parents are no longer around to teach their kids best behavior.

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I don't - but it's stupid to use abusive language. It gets you nowhere.

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Some people say those words out of anger and they don't mean it :)

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And some people just use it just to make other people angry.
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Because it makes allot of people feel more powerful by using the F bomb. I just think its being verbally bankrupt ; '

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Lots of people don't.

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It shows a limited vocabulary and poor breeding. avoid negative people and you'll be much happier!

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It's an adult's way of having a "temper tantrum". Any child can do the same thing. At least a child has the excuse that his resources are limited.

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A few days ago you gave me some information. I forgot part of it and now I can't track it down. I would be very appreciative and happy if you could tell me again. I think I would like to make use of it.
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Love this answer. So true. Hi, sincerity :) hope all is well.
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Yes JD...I will put it on another answer and you will recognize it. ;)
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Hi Shaylen!!!!!!! Always good to see you here...and a great voice of reason.
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Thank you.
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Great parallel, Sin.
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Hi!!! Lol. And thanks! Same to you! :D
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Pow! Sin, that was an answer with a punch! Great!
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SOME people use it because they don't understand the meaning of the word, they either don't know or don't care how it affects people, and/or they think it's cool.
And then for some reason they can't figure out why I think they're not very smart when the majority of the words the use are disrespectful and don't even make sense when used repeatedly with other disrespectful words.
Yeah. Some people are weird. >:/

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Lollipopslove

Well i dont

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Because some people are mad.

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Small minded people try to make themselves feel superior by trying to make other people feel inferior.

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Very true JD !
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^preach
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People use it mostly because of anger. But for me, the ONLY time I do cuss is when someone is being EXTREMELY ignorant or disrespectful. If it's from their ignorance, I start to get frustrated, which it kinda makes it unfair for me because I'm getting mad over their stupidity, so I use it to make the other person mad so it balances out. The madder they get the more it makes me feel better. Kinda my way of doing justice. lol. But if it's from them being disrespectful it just comes from anger.

Also if they start to cuss at me I just laugh. lol.

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because of our emotions...we're not aware that we said it...and sadly at the end we regret what we have said...

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Great question,because we want to hurt someone who did something wrong,because we want to be in the middle,lots of answers,try to ask your self why do you do that.

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It gets to people more harsh.

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Also not everyone uses it. IF your baptist you cannot use it at all no matter how mad or anything you are.
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"We"? Who's "we"? Not me, I can tell you that.

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To scold anyone with anger.But in some conditions home atmosphere also depends on their language.

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People want to express their anger in a less harmful way,but I really don't support bad language.

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Most people use abusive language due to their association - how they are influenced, some use it to project power against what they perceive as a threat or bully. Some feel t is the "way of the world" today. However, we are given counsel in respects to abusive speech in the Bible at Ephesians 4:31 -Let all malicious bitterness and anger and wrath and screaming and abusive speech be taken away from YOU along with all badness

We must also remember being influenced by the "wicked one" (Satan) also play a role in one choosing such language. (Revelation 12:9)

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No matter how intelligent man gets he still is cursed with human nature, there are some that are capable of curbing abusive language, but are still found lacking in other areas. Whether its drugs or sex or lack of respect for others, that old nature will get you every time. In the book of Romans the 7th chapter, Paul explains that your nature causes you to do the things you hate, and wont be able to do the things you want to do. The only way to fight it is to pray a lot.

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Why do we abuse? And abusive language is used to abuse, i don't know how u don't know that.

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So people know that they are serious or mad at someone or something

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people are animals.

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