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How do i convince my friend he needs to step up and take care of his girlfriend and the baby on the way?

I just found out one of my friend's girlfriend is pregnant and i asked him what he's gonna do and what he thinks about it and he says he doesnt care.

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Wether he cares or not he is financially responsible. Even if he is in denial. She might have to fight him in the end but if the kid is his then he has to pay. Even if there is no continuing relationship. He has no choice. It's the law. So if he doesn't care, that's too bad it's pay up or go to jail. The choice is his.

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Well he is in 9th grade she is in 8th he doesnt have a job and she's 14 and pretty much sleeps with everyone....
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Well maybe abortion is th ebest option. As well as a sexeducation class for the both of them.
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That's sad but tell him he will regret it later and worse maybe when he is ready to see the child the child will refuse him!!

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It might be easier to convince the baby momma to sue for child support

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She's 14 hes in 9th grade she's in 8th and she pretty much sleeps with everyone....so that wouldnt help
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WHERE ARE THEIR PARENTS!!!!? Sorry, rage, okay, he's too immature to care about anything, I'm guessing tht the parents aren't to happy, talk to them about it
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they dont know yet
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It might sound snitchy, but you need to tell them, it's for the best, ur friend thinks he's a grownup and can have sex, then he needs to be grown up enough to deal with the consequences, kid stuff is over, he saw to that
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Unfortunately, you can't convince a loser/deadbeat to change his ways. You can decide if that's the type of friend you want around you.

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Is it too late for an abortion? Has that option been considered? Depending on the situation, it may end up being the smartest option.

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Im sorry but i will not support an abortion to any of my friends
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why not? are you chicken?
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What is more immoral? Destroying a mass of cells that has no consciousness yet, or willingly bringing a new human a life without a father, and a potentially irresponsible and possibly incompetent (based on the fact that she got with and became pregnant with a man like him) mother? What choice results in more suffering? A baby looking forward to a childhood without a father, and then facing the rest of their life plagued with issues stemming from their childhood, or killing a mass of flesh that doesn't yet have consciousness and isn't yet capable of suffering?
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