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How do i stop?

My girlfriend and I broke up 4 months ago and in the process she was getting serious with someone else. She told him she loves him within the first month. She has completely moved on, and I can’t even look at other girls. I’ve tried and I’m just not interested or sexually attracted to them. It kills me that her life is so much better without me and she doesn't miss me at all. I haven't seen her since we broke up and I’m going to be working with her all summer and I know she's just going to be a jerk and rub her boyfriend in my face, and my feelings are going to come back even more. People say give it time, it will get better, but it hasn't. Its been 4 months and i still think about her everyday, I have hope that she will want me again but I can see in her photos, and i just know how she is, she will never come back to me. She's completely in love and I just don't know what to do to stop loving her so much.

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Ive heard many of these situations. u may always love her, but someday u will find somebody who has enough force 2 pull u in2 happiness as well. If u truly love her, u need 2 b happy that she found happiness with some1. If she rubs it in ur face, just pull her aside & tell her that u love her enough 2 b happy that she is happy. I know its hard 2 accept, but u need 2 learn that this is her choice. And u need 2 accept whatever she decides. If u love her, u will b happy when she is happy.

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maybe you should move or like... talk to her about how you feel, if she doesnt listen then...i dont know

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Like the used to say back in the war!....Best cure for old Pu**y, Is NEW PU**Y!

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chuck norris never fails

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Hell yeah she's going to rub it know your face but don't let it get to you. You'll find someone better she's just trying to make you suffer and by you letting her is making her feel accomplished ignore her. Let her think you don't care when you really do but just don't let her get to you make her think your ok and shell back off

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I am going through the same but vice versa. Im the woman suffering..

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Stay away from her. Don't look at photos of her. If your friends (and I use the term loosely) talk about her, change the subject or leave the conversation. Love is a form of addiction in its way, and like being addicted to a drug, you can't break with it if you're still sneaking doses.

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