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Have you ever been in love with a married person? Please don't give me moral lessons since i know its wrong.how do we move out and move on?

spare me hateful comments. thanks

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Yes, I have...Wait, does my wife not count?

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Whatever
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Seriously? Just stay out of the other person's life. Get a hobby, go travel, find someone new. Don't wait around for someone that is UNAVAILABLE

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Nope.

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It's difficult to get this to end well. Let's say you are in a canoe 500 yards upstream from Niagara Falls and you just now have realized where you are. The only answer is to get the hell out of the river and do so immediately.

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What if this river is inevitable? He is my boss at work. Where would i run? To another job?
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Well that is a little more complicated. It may not be obvious at the moment, but you do have options. You need to find out what they are. If you are handcuffed to the canoe, that is a problem. The attrraction between a particular man and woman is not always rationally based; it is usually overdetermined by various factors in our upbringing. Also, relationships are habituating---and you know habits are hard to break. I would highly suggest you talk to a professional counselor. They will have good ideas and support you through this issue. Use your iphone and schedule an appointment now.
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P.S I just looked at some of the questions you've answered. There's no reason for you to go through this without support. Make that call!!
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So you see now what i have been going through? Im even disgusted all my questions are about that one person!! Im desperate for getting over this situation.
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I hear you. Don't beat yourself up. You"re human. It's very painful. Get some support..You matter just because you exist!!!
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True !! Thanks a lot. Your support counts:)
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It only leads to heartbreak. Been there did that twice. Run fast as you can.

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Very painful, indeed.
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yup, vowed to myself never again will I fall for that.
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