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Should I break up with my bf of 2+ years? Seriously conflicted.

He's head over heels for me, but I've been feeling disconnected for months. He says that he will change, but he hasn't yet and its, like I said, been months. Everyone thinks we will get married and stuff and that's unnecessary pressure. We JUST won High School Sweethearts for our yearbook and prom is in 2 months. Now there's this other guy that I'm liking a lot. I don't want to cheat, and I know this is all so bad. We're seniors in high school and going off to college next year, but he may be going to the same school as me! I'm trapped! Now what? I don't want to be a bad guy, but I don't want to string him along

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If you're not sure about your feelings, then you could't have been right for eachother in the first place. If you keep leading him on, you will be living a lie the rest of your life, unless you can learn to really love him. I would break up with him, if I were you. Just do it gently. Good luck! :)

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If you like him you should necessarly stay with him and go to prom with him :) but if you feel like you have more feelings for the other guy , you should let him ..

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You have already decided. Let him go. Don't jump into another relationship. Get to know yourself single for a while. Maybe by Prom you'll be you enough to have an honest relationship.

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You know what to do u r I think just afraid. You don't want people to call u a heartbreaker to this nice guy who adores u. Don't ever waste time trying to love someone out of guilt. You will ultimately make both of u miserable only later rather than sooner. Be honest, don't say it's not u it's me, just say how u feel about him or rather what u don'nt feel. its also about who he is now and not who u want him to become. be strong in stating that u expect your feelings will not change even if he changes, tell him he deserves to b loved for who he is now.

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