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ok so my ex bf and i have been texting and you know i thought we were just friends talking with friends right? So the thing is, everyday at night he texts me, "Goodnight i love you BABE" ok so if I'm not mistaken i did make it clear that i broke up with him but I'm losing interest in him too! And the thing is he still likes me... My question is is that how do you tell an exboyfriend that you don't want him to say i love you anymore. I don't want to make him sad but i also don't want to lead him on 'cuz I'm not that type of person, but PLEASE help! THANKS!

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Being a guy, I would tell you to just be straightforward with your thoughts. No need to sugarcoat it. Good luck.

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Be brave go up to him and say we should met other people but we can still be friends.

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I love my friends. I only tell my family and the one I am in love with that I love them. Just tell him it isn't normal for friends to express love for each other. I would also be honest and tell him that he will only hurt himself if he continues to invest in a relationship with you. It will be better for both of you.

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I think u should tell him this hey im sorry but we broke up I still want to be friends if that's ok with u but every night u say I love u if u keep saying that ur only hurting ur self im sorry but i dont love u any more why do you still love me please stop saying I love u to me

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Just make sure that he know's you love him as a friend and nothing more. It might be better for you to cut way down on the texting just keep it short and sweet so you don't lead him on.

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Hey girl friend!!! How ya doing??
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Good!!!!! I didn't have much work today and it was 90 here so I was hanging out side all day!!!!!!! It felt ssoooooo good!!!!!
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Wait, what? 90 degrees, that's just not fair ;( I'm so ready for warm weather so I can float in my pool, ahhh....
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Yep!!!! So nice... I have the whole house opened up and my honey is out BBQing in flip flops and shorts!!!! Happy Happy Happy!!!!!!
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Just put it out there straight forward.

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yes sir buddy
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Why are you wasting your time responding to him?
If you've dumped him & moved on, you've got other things to do, places to go, & people to ... communicate with.
Within a day or two of NO response from you, he will have his epiphany.

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