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I have a boyfriend and we barely talk, he doesnt do anything for me. I'm starting to fall for a new kid hes really nice. What should I do?

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See, this is why kids need to learn how to date around first instead if just jumping straight into a relationship. If you were single and just going out on dates with Mr. Personality there would be no conflict here because you wouldn't have to dump him first in order to go out on a date with the other guy. And you would've discovered that the first guy isn't interested in you during the dating process instead of in the relationship. Now you gotta dump him, or maybe he's gonna dump you first. But if you were just dating casually there'd be nobody dumping anybody, you would just stop going out on dates with him. See how much easier and more efficient this is?

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Dump this one, take the other one <3

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Dump him an get the one you like

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how serious is the relationship?

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we have been dating for a month and two weeks and only have hung out once because he never has the time......
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oh.. i'd dump him then.
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Dump you bf and go with the guy u like

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Doesn't sound like u really love him or he loves u!? I would get the other one if I were u! Cuz if it were true love with the first one u wouldn't like the other one!

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Tell your boyfriend what you think about you and him, break up if your really in love with the other one, and get the one you love.

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Not happy? Follow your heart. It doesn't sound like you have a boyfriend, it sounds like you have a friend.

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thanks, this has really changed how i look at my boyfriend, now that i think about it, that is almost what it is between us more of friends than anything.
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If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one. Because if you truly loved the first one, you wouldn’t love another. - Johnny Depp
Now about what I think if you feel like your boyfriend doesn't do anything for you and doesn't show you his love, you should have a talk with him. Regardless the second guy your current relationship has problems. Communication is the key to everything. Have you ever tried to talk to him and tell him how you feel that you never talk or the fact that he is not demonstrative enough? Remember that some day you really liked that person, now you are in a relationship and you ow to your history a talk and lots of thought from your side in order to realize if he really doesn't care or is just that he is introvert type of person that needs time. But still if you don't like that you can still break up any time. Just think those things first and figure out that stuff before

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About the new guy I think the fact that you are already falling is indicative of how you feel. I just don't know if that's happening because you are losing hope with your current boyfriend and you need to go out there and flirt and feel wanted or because there is no strong connection with your boyfriend from your side either.
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If you don't want to be with him then leave.

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