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Boys, boys, boys! How do you reject a guy, without hurting them or your friendship?

So recently all of my guy friends are acting different and people are telling me they think I'm hot. I'm still really hung up over this guy so I want to let these guys down easy, how do I do it!?

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I hate to break it to you but they're gonna be hurt either way :/. They'll keep on repeating the stuff you said to them in their head and then they'll break it down and then unlock the secret message= THEY JUST GOT REJECTED!!!! and you tried to do it nicely, cuz you know that doesn't hurt their pride at all. (I got guy friends who get rejected A LOT and that's basically how they act)

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More often than not, you can't. You just have to be honest, and hope the guy will understand and not get hurt.

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I have done this many times before....just speak " girl language " and wt I mean by that is tell them this
1. Sry but I don't want a boyfriend right now
2. I just went through a bad relationship and I don't think I am ready to move on
3. I already have a boyfriend ..he doesn't go to this school and he doesn't have fb
4.i don't want to ruin our friendship
basically on some u lie but they don't know that u are lying that is why it is called " girl language " cause they don't understand it,lol

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Mind blown.
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Lol...and since I have used those it lets them down easily
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Wow... Thts really good advice lol
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This one guy recently asked me out and i said: im sorry.. But no. I just dont want the drama.. But thnx..

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