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How to deal with my first breakup? He's the only person who ever loved me. He promised he wouldn't go. I can't deal with myself. Help :'(

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Keep on swimming. A bunch of other fish out there. I got promised that and the guy was my first but then I realized that it was all puppy love. :/ and then he saw my best friend. Funny thing is this I haven't really been going for any guys but he asks out basically 2 girls each week and always gets rejected. Karma. Trust me he'll realize he lost someone really important to him, once he sees you swimming. That's what my first boyfriend did. Honestly just kinda blank yourself from him no matter how hard it is. It'll hurt for 4 months but the pain lessens and it's good for you.. :/ I'm still trying to convince myself that I don't have any feelings for him. But we're good friends now.. :)

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FunnyLittleFrog

I'm certain he's not the only person who ever loved you. What about your family and friends? You're dealing with yourself right now...you can get over it but it will take time, that's all.

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I know how you feel, but the only thing you can do is move on. Take this time to spend more time with friends and family. They always find a way to cheer me up :). Eventually You'll find the perfect guy who will love you and want to spend the rest of his life with you! Hope this made you feel better.

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Well, to deal with a break up, you just need to ignore that guy,but if he's the one who broke up with you,then you just need to find another man for you that's perfect, but you just keep moving on with your life.you will find another love.

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The best way to deal with your first break-up is by cutting communications with him. This is not necessarily an easy thing to do but it helps in the healing process. Try spending time with your friends so that you don’t go through this by yourself. Check out http://www.prasannajeetpani.in/2010/10/how-to-deal-with-your-first-breakup.html.

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Justme111

You say I have a war within myself. What about you? Don't mean to sound nasty but you just came to one of my questions and said the same.

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Punch him in the face and go get some ice-cream. c:
I'm not kidding, it helps, sweetheart.
Plus, there's too many guys in the world to waste your time on just one, Stick to your friends for a little bit and they'll get you up on your feet again; Relationships are temporary, but friendship is forever.

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All you can do is wait. There are billions of people and lots of them could love you.

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