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Why do people look at me and my friends a weird way when we go to the mall?

Is it because im emo and so are my friends? i mean i dont dress crazy or have an afro but im not sure... im not feeling good about my self when we go to the mall :'( Should i stop being who i love to be "emo"

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Kids dress 'emo' because they WANT people to look at them, and they don't even know it, it's a subconcious desire for attention. It gives them a chance to be rebellious, a chance to say "What are YOU lookin' at?!"

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i honestly dont dress crazy look at me i dont look like those chicks that have blue hair:( and i dress normally
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Nah nah nah, you gotta say "WHATCHYA LOOKIN' AT, FOO?!" XD
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Haha "I PITY THE FOO WHO LOOKS AT ME!"
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lol!!!!!
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Lol!
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Look at you? Is that picture really you? ... Well mystery solved then!
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yea it is me! im not a liar
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Phlorence_602

No.
Now ask then why

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Then why? ?
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Confrontations are not wise with people like that.
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I think she meant ask THEM why.
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As long as you are not self harming be who you want! Just look at them and give a nice smile. It will make them think, believe me! Don't ever let anyone make you feel less than the beautiful person God made you to be!!!!

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Thank you :) that really made me feel better:)
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You're welcome!
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i just hate the feeling when they look at me :(
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Smile and look away. If it bothers you to much then you need to not wear things that stand out. You either completely accept YOU or don't!
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i do accept myself:(
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Then what's the sad face about? And why are you letting others bother you? Why does their opinion matter more than yours?
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no im not... i just dont like it but im gonna start to stand up for myself thanks to you:)
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Good for you honey! You are too good to let them bother you! God bless you!
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I'm just not clear as to why it matters.

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You shouldn't change who you are. You Don't have to care what other people think of you. Everyone has their own opinion.

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Yeah... thank you :)
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What's wrong with a Afro? and maybe you are just over reacting...Go to the mall and have fun...

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lol i meant like big bouncy hair that is big like an afro .. srry:) and if you were there with me they put their finger on their wrist like telling to cut myself:(
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telling me*
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Sugar.... have fun and be happy..
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thank you
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If someone looks at you and they have droopy pants, you could start singing, "PANTS ON THE GROUND, PANTS ON THE GROUND. LOOK AT YOU WITH THE PANTS ON THE GROUND!!!" xD

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lol nice!!!
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Good Morning country bumpkin! Hows Missy today?......."country bumpkin" is and ol country song that I like, ohhhhhh "green apples" is a good one too! And" happiest girl in the who usa", ohhhhhh "funny face" is a good one too, ohhh "the grand tour" is a good one too, ohhhhh satan sheets is a good one too! Ohhhhhh "the devil went down to Georgia" makes me drive fast, ohhhhhh "im a country boy" is a foot tapper, ohhhhh "country road"is a good one too! Ohhhh "hello darlin" is a good one too! Ohhhhh"where have you been" is a touching romantic song! Ohhhhhhh 'I wish I were a teddy bear"is a good one too!"another bed time story"will wqrm your heart right up! Ok ok I ill hush now.......maybe lol
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I know, Mom calls me Country Bumpkin all the time. XD
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You ever listen to the song? Ohhhh the "three bells" is a goo one too!
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sweet peaches
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If that blue is really the color of your eyes that might be the reason, I have seen blue eyes but yours look like they could glow in the dark! At any rate dont let any one change who you are because they stare or any other reason for that matter.

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Well everyone looks at teenagers. Its so common for people to look at us when we make noise and yell and do stupid things. But why dress emo? Just shop at Tillys

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Being emotional shouldn't make people look at you since everyone is, unless you mean "scene", then expect people to look at you.

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