9 months ago
Last edited at 7:47PM on 3/16/2013
Love isn't supposed to hurt; it's supposed to feel wonderful! If you're crying for the one you love, you must have a long, HONEST conversation with yourself about why you're crying. Why are you hurting because you love someone? Many people believe that love is a sensation. You fall in love, and you can fall out of love. Love is a choice
Loving someone is like having someone take you by the hand and fly you above the clouds. It's this feeling beyond practicality and reality. That person has you so high and focused on them, when they let go you spend your time falling and wondering when they are going to swoop down and grab you. Then when you land and break into a million pieces you realize they aren't coming back and you wonder.....did they ever feel as strongly as you did?
There are 2 kinds of hurt. Mind hurt & heart hurt. Mind hurt is when someone puts you thru mental hell then walks away. This is OK - good riddance. Hurt briefly; be glad in the long run. (Heart hurt, different story. It means you're human, a good person & did the best you could allowing someone into your life & heart. But just because the other person did not connect w/ you equally does not mean you did something wrong. The relationship failure probably saved from disaster. Hurts like hell, true, but pretty positive you will later see it as a blessing in disguise..
I agree with bentherdunthat. I too feel just like you. I'm hurting so bad but I know if I sit in stillness and think why we couldn't work, how he treated me, or did t treat me I realize I am better off... I have surrounded myself with friends have decided to move back home to Indiana to be by family and have a new job offer.. Keep your head up.. Allow yourself to cry... You'll get through this with me :)