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When can a person tell when a man actually loves her?

so I have been hanging out with a good guy friend who I really care for. lately, he has been very affectionate (cuddling, holding my hand, even simple kisses). this shows love in my book. although, he is really conscious about a labido problem he has and is very shy about it. but I don't think sex is everything to have a good friendship or relationship. his affection is wonderful. could this non verbal communication from a man mean anything promising?

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by his eyes. the eyes tell all of what a person feels. eyes will show a lie. if a man truely loves his lady? look at his eyes and there you'll find your answer.

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Eyes. When your not looking and he states at you he's thinking, "God, I love this girl" or, "She's so pretty." but you see it in his eyes

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Well maybe he found in you the support he was looking for that's why it shows in his action that he is happy with you. I won't say love but i'd say it's the begging of love. If he cares too much, ask and hang out with you a lot and you feel like he doesn't want the time to pass then he is on the path to love you. A saying path cause you said lately! that means you 2 don't have a long history otherwise i'd say yes he loves you.

Good luck :)

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Only you can tell whether he is in love with you or not. The affections you mentioned are very rare by a guy to a girl. I agree with you that sex is not everything. And yes a non verbal communication from a guy means something. As i mentioned its not usual by a guy. So could be promising.

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You ask if anything will tell you if he loves you. ... His willingness to perform the following actions will show you that your man loves you.

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Maybe he trusts you so if anything happens between you 2 & his libido problem is a problem it won't be so embarrassing for him. He knows you are a kind caring compassionate person so maybe you may be his substitute for a partner till he can trust himself to have the confidence to perform without failure.
I know this isn't the answer you want to hear but I don't want you to confuse comfortability or familiarness with love. That would be asking for disappointment. Just take it step by step & he may prove me wrong but men make love to women for a different reason to why women make love to a man. I hope he proves me wrong.

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Ya he and I have known each other for a little over a year. His last girlfriend of 8 years did him terribly wrong, and with this he is still taunted. He is seeking therapy for his fears and anxiety. He also has some mental health issues that he is trying to deal with. I've been around for him. We hang out once a week. The past few weeks he has held me and cuddled with me more. He said we have bonded a lot and told me "there is more to come".
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Well then, take it slowly. He has baggage to work through before he is emotionally free to commit to you. You seem very careing. You will have a lot to deal with as he is mentally healing from the relationship scars of 8 years. Goodluck & he is lucky to have you for support.
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