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What can a Christian man that likes a woman whom has a boyfriend do? What are his not sinful options? The man wants to knock boots.

Following the bible, what can a Christian man do that is not sinful? Women are willing to sleep with him but they have boyfriends.

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I have problems like that too but you can't "knock boots" before marriage.

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maybe i am crazy...but i know i am human because i bleed,eat, sleep like other humans. i dont see how a preacher ,pope, or any other man can function without sexual relief. i give up sex 2 marriages ago when i decided it just wasnt going to work. then came the sexual activity that went with them. so when i look around today and see how open sex is..it scares the hell out of me. and a condom is a joke. (read the box may is a key word) the only answer i can find that makes sense is self sex? i am not sure how GOD feels about that but its the only way to play guaranteed not to pass or catch.

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Pray for God to get you one and don't worry about them. He will hook you up..

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I hope you realize what you just made God there.
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Glad to see I wasn't the only one that caught his implication that god is a pimp.
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This topic is swept under the rug by most bible quoting scripture thumping believers when in fact the majority of single Christian struggle with sex outside of marriage and even married ones struggle with sex inside of marriage. I like to be straight forward and transparent as much as possible.
I'm a single Christian and I even struggle at times but how ever I've learned to avoid putting myself in heated situations if you know what I mean. Ok here's the solution ==================================== Get married ==============But if they can?t control themselves, they should go ahead and marry. It?s better to marry than to burn with lust. (1 Corinthians 7:9 NLT)==========Flee heated situations==========Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, pursue righteous living, faithfulness, love, and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts. (2 Timothy 2:22 NLT)=================== And remember the will of God=======God?s will is that your lives are dedicated to him. This means that you stay away from sexual immorality and learn how to control your own body in a pure and respectable way. Don?t be controlled by your sexual urges like the Gentiles who don?t know God. (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 CEB)///// So as you see we all have our struggles but we must walk in the Spirit in order to over come them (((peace)))============So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won?t be doing what your sinful nature craves. The sinful nature wants to do evil, which is just the opposite of what the Spirit wants. And the Spirit gives us desires that are the opposite of what the sinful nature desires. These two forces are constantly fighting each other, so you are not free to carry out your good intentions. (Galatians 5:16, 17 NLT)

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Amen, bobby.
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I answered, get married and start a family, those responsibilities will turn your heat down. And they zapped me twice, I wonder why .
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Hmmm...yesterday morning, a man answered a question saying he,was not racist but that 99% of all black men are not truthful if u marry one, u will have 5 children and live in the ghetto. and he insisted that he was a grown man and kniws this. It didnt even get removed until i reported it as offensive an hour ago. Then, they finally did.
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You told him right but the truth isn't excepted all the time. Hey Lolo
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Wow that's people for yah" Lolo
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Yes.. I just finished watching the movie Roots and that persons comment made my blood boil for moment. ( I had to ask God for forgiveness...) same way I felt while watching the movie. speaking of that. A gf if mine just married a man from Africa a year ago. ( they r older.. In their 40s) He was born and raised in the same area as Kunte Kinte in Roots. Has lived in America for only about 14 years. He says he had never knew racism or even heard of it while living in Africa until he watched that movie.
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I don't know, I wish I could fill in between the lines. That would prevent anyone from putting their words into my writings ,And then accuse me of writing them. That's basically what you do when you read between the lines. Your're reading your words, not the writers.

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Yeah.. Plaint, u can email the mods and specifically ask why they removed your answer. My husband did this and they actually put his answers back up.
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just because i am not the man GOD wants me to be doesnt mean i am evil..i respect the word and try to do as close to it as i am man enough to....who knows one day i may be JUST what GOD wants. he has changed me a lot.
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Christian men should remember that their primary mission in life is the salvation of souls. This should help to put things into perspective.

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Even in Bible times, some engaged in premarital sex. An immoral women might invite a young man to indulge. Saying:"Come on, let's take our fill of love until morning, for my husband is away on a long trip." (Proverbs 7:8)
[Living Bible] The Bible, however, warned that pleasures enjoyed today can cause pain tomorrow. "For the lips of a loose women drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword."(Proverbs 5:3-4). RSV. Paul H Landis , a respected researcher in the field of family life , observes: " The temporary effect [of premarital sex] May be to strengthen the relationship, but the long term-term effects may be quite different." Indeed, couples who have sex are more likely to break up than are those who abstain! The reason? Illicit sex breeds jealousy and distrust. Admitted one young man: Some fellows, when they have intercourse, think afterwards, "if she had it with me maybe she had it with someone else.' As a matter of fact....I was extremely jealous and doubtful and suspicious."
How remote this is from genuine love, which is not jealous,....does not behave indecently. "Love is patient and kind; love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful, it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right ." 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 (Revised Standard Bible)
Those who wait until marriage also enjoy peace of mind, knowing they are pleasing to God. Still, staying chaste these days is far from easy.

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You are a christian and u have to ask this? I think u know the answer.

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