How about if you guys put the brakes on and slow down, I think you're trying to play house a little bit too early, why don't you just stick to holding hands going to the movies and to the mall, all that adult stuff will come in time, don't rush it, there are problems lying in the road ahead if you are not careful and you won't like what's there, don't make yourself another statistic...
if he respects you then he probably wants you to wait til your comfortable, tell him when your ready or ask him if hes ready. Remember you have to think about how he feels about it too. hope this helps:) good luck
Don't do it. It's not worth it. Trust me, I am the product of what my mother likes to call "a surprise" meaning she had sex with someone who ran out on me. On us. So contraception might lower the chances of pregnancy, but it won't stop it, if I were you, just wait. Be grateful he's respectful. Good luck girl :)
I could be wrong, but, my gut feeling is he's allowing YOU to choose just how far to take your 'encounters' .. so that when you finally feel ready to 'go all the way' .. he can lay blame on you for getting pregnant.
If he really 'respected' you .. He would wait until you are older and wiser .. and able to make a grown up decision about this relationship and how far you want to take it. Remember .. taking such a big step is not without consequence.