Submit a question to our community and get an answer from real people.
Submit

What do women want?

When I try to be nice to them, they use me because I'm too nice. So I've learned. this new girl I just met, I try to be a little not too nice, she shot me down.

Report as

Be yourself, but don't let anyone use you. You'll know the difference in the ones who have a genuine interest and those who use you.

Helpful (11) Fun (1) Thanks for voting Comments (7)
Report as
Well said!:-)
Report as
Yup!
Report as
Thank you wittepier!
Report as
Thank you Bubblious!
Report as
Your welcome!:-)
Report as
Good answer MerrillTom...
Report as
Thank you Ladywood! hope all is well with you. We keep catching one another at bed time Lol
Report as
Add a comment...
FunnyLittleFrog

What do men want? It's confusing, who knows :/

Helpful (5) Fun (2) Thanks for voting Comments (3)
Report as
A girl with a caring heart :)
Report as
Someone who makes me laugh
Report as
A girl who cares, love, sincere, and specially only mine only mine only mine
Report as
Add a comment...

Women want a man to treat them right

Helpful (4) Fun (1) Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

Very complex question, but since I'm a female, I know it.
All girls are different, so like some like nice people for themselves, and some use them. You've got to know a little bit about the girl before you go up and ask her out. Start out with coffee or lunch or breakfast or dinner.

Helpful (4) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

Life's mysteries brother, no answers

Helpful (2) Fun (2) Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

be who you want to be, be yourself, you'll find a girl that's right for you in the future :)

Helpful (3) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

i'm a girl, and every girl is different. get to know her, take her out to dinner, and b yourself. there's so many fish in the sea... =)

Helpful (3) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

I can't speak for all women, but I would want you to just be yourself. Nothing is less appealing than someone trying too hard to be something they're not. I also prefer a guy who is nice to women, but not a guy who acts like a puppy and tries too hard. That's even MORE unattractive.

Helpful (2) Fun (1) Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

When you find out
Let the community know

Helpful (6) Fun (3) Thanks for voting Comments (1)
Report as
So True! Lol!:-).
Report as
Add a comment...

Listen to your heart and don't let anyone use you! Woman want a perfect guy with a nice /warm smile ! And if you mean as gifts it would be clothing , jewelry , Or a date/dinner in a
Restaurant! ?

Helpful (1) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

Be nice, but not a pushover.

Helpful (6) Fun (1) Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

There's nothing wrong with the women .. All women are not created equal when it comes to personality. The one's you have mentioned are just be who they are, perhaps a little short sighted and shallow .. if you want to get a better reaction to your attentions .. raise the bar on the type of 'women' your are trying to 'woo' with your charms.

Helpful (2) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

thats a question that has no answer my friend = /
maybe she wasn't for you....
be nice but not too nice thats what heard = /
because then they loose interest doodle doodle something ... i don't get it either

Helpful (4) Fun (3) Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

An honest caring guy

Helpful (4) Fun (1) Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

the same thing men want ,but are more sentimentel about it .

Helpful (2) Fun (1) Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

Us women are just a mystery so really it would be a waste of time to try and figure us out, but some want love and compassion from their lover while some would rather prefer to use for money, sex, and whatever else mean cruel thing there is to hurt a man's feelings. Just best thing to do is find you a good one who won't use you and prosper onward in life with her hopefully although there is a high possibility that it could be a happy ever ending or not....

Helpful (3) Fun (1) Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

Haha nobody knows...

Helpful (3) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

A man whose honest, loyal, caring and can make you laugh. A man who
can be strong but sensitive and soft. Who does what's right and stands his ground...
Just be yourself, your still learning and experiencing life. Don't wear your heart on your sleeve...
When the right girl comes along, you'll know it...

Helpful (4) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (4)
Report as
Now that's an excellent answer! Very practical as well.
Hope all is well, Ms Ladywood!
Report as
Why thank you Mr Merrilltom...;)
Report as
You're very welcome my Ladywood ;)
Report as
Does Tommy come from Thomas?
Report as
Add a comment...

Be FUNNY and show emotion, by that I don't mean cry when your around her but show nervousness, sadness, BE ROMANTIC bring her to nice places, like a romantic walk in a forest on a nice day, GIRLS LOVE IT WHEN you kiss them on there forehead and HUG THEM TIGHTLY, just to squeeze the girl to much, be SUPPORTIVE and caring to her. Lastly TELL HER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER and how beautiful she is

Helpful (1) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

Unconditional love & undivided attention...!!!

Helpful (2) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

well, perverted girls want sex of course and nice girls want an honest loyal nice funny guy.

Helpful (1) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

love and happiness

Helpful Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...
Do you have an answer?
Answer this question...
Did you mean?
Login or Join the Community to answer
Popular Searches