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How do I tell my "straight" friend I like her?

I've known this girl for a long time now. But we haven't been as close as we are today. For about 2 months I've had thoughts that I might be bi/bi-curious. But I never actually liked a girl, until me and my friend have been getting close. Every time I see her I get huge butterflies. My heart races a million times faster than usual. I recently (over text) told her that I was attracted to girls. She was totally fine with it. Unexpectedly she responded by saying she once almost had a relationship with a girl. I thought maybe that would boost my chances up, but I'm so scared. I don't want to loose her, HELP!

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well she's not completely straight if she almost got in a relationship with a girl so you might have a chance take baby steps give her little compliments or something or tell her what you like about her if i was you i would just straight up tell her and if she rejects you then oh well your gonna have to deal with it cause you have to try and maybe she will feel the same way about you wish you luck girlie (;

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tell her that you like her and not to be scared. say if you dont like me thats fine. but i like you and if theres a chance i had to take it. if you just wanna be friends tell me now and ill never ask again

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just tell her, i told my friend that was a girl that i like her but now im straight

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Its risky buissness... but I would go for it. I mean, you go for it not me. I'm not... never mind.

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well, tell her u like her but that if she didn't feel the same way that u didn't want that to ruin your friendship

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be like i don't want this to change our relationship , but my friendship with you has turned into more than friends type of thing , you are a great person , beautiful inside and out , i like you . but i don't want you to think that we can't be friends because of this

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Well maybe you should try to tell her how you feel like over text so its not awkward maybe she will feel the same way

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just do it and get it over with, if it ruins the friendship then get over it, there's nothing else you can do

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Ask her if she would date a girl right now and if she says yes then ask her if she would date you but make it sound like your just asking her on a friend level don't be all serious though make her laugh though so she thinks your not asking her out but if says yes to everything you've asked her then ask her out and I'll bet you she'll say yes.

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I asked her if she would turn that way all the time, but she says noooo or some times anywaysssss let's change the subject. But we friend flirt all the time. She confused me lol
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Assuming you are female, why would you do that? There's not a thing wrong with your being gay. But you said she's straight. Why would you disrespect her that? Suppose you gave a good friend that is a straight male. Would you want him hitting on you even though you've been clear about your sexuality?

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She's talked to girls before that way, she almost got in a relationship with one...so yea..
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So the way you began your question with "my straight friend" isn't exactly right then.
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That's why I out it in quotation marks..
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tell her

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I think you should just tell her, hope for the best!

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