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Bullying? how can i stand up

sometimes i dont go in the restroom because i think he might jump me with his friends, and when he's walking by i try to act like i dont see him and start a conversation with a friend so i wont draw attention to myself, and when its time to be dismissed i stay inside the building instead of going outside and waiting for my ride so i wont get into a fight and he doesnt like me because i got him kicked off the basketball team because he called me fat and sorry(sorry means bad)...Im getting tired of running ...HOW CAN I STAND UP

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Tell an adult
Get him expelled
Tell him to back off
Ignore him
Show him whos boss
Dont flinch,dont be afraid
Always stand by an adult ....
these are the some ways that can help

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and ive never been in a fight in my life and everybody says he can fight and he knocked out all these people..i jus dont want to get beat up in front of everybody and have no friends plus this is my first year this school
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How old r u?

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Just fight back. and when they verbally abuse you, just smile and say things like "I know right". He is just looking to bring you down but you have to show him that your a strong person. He is just feeding off of your attention

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Contact and adult for help right away!
Or you can do what I did when I was in middle school... I learned martial arts, and got my older brother to help me. So maybe get help from a friend or brother and/or learn self-defense.

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Fighting back is a good thing but if you hurt the bully, cops can arrest you for assalt. Even in self defense, hurting them can cause consequences. Talk to a cop about filing a bully report. Bullying can be considered a crime or a teacher can also get them introuble. Trust me its the best way

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Well try to get him back on the team if you say that's the reason why. See, what I'm saying Is if you could show him and his coach responsibility and forgive him for what he might of said maybe you will earn the respect you deserve. Then ask for him to have a second chance. Then there is a possibility that you and him, and you and his friends will become great friends.

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good idea but my middle school basketball team has been over for about 6 months and he still bullys me and i dont know why but thanks for the good advice
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I know how you feel. Just tell them what's up. And let them know your not playing. Just don't be afraid and don't make stupid mistakes. ?

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feels good to know somebody else has had the same problem as me :)
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Call me and i'll kick him in the nuts

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lol ok sure
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Haha :p
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The Bible says the soft word stops the anger, but the agressive respond makes the flame grow. Just be wiser. Pray to God for wisdom. It s not denied to anyone, I ve heard. The Bible also says if someone slaps you, show the other cheek. Try getting him to see that he is wrong and get him to go to church. Remember, be wise. Gby

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Glory to God.
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Kick that bitch in the face

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Be the bigger person and ignore it if it is only words.
If it's physical, defend your self of corse (but only if you know you'll win.)
If you won't win in a fight, it's better to stay away from bullies & tell your teacher/parents/or counselor.

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this takes time i was bullied just as much or worse than this.. you have a few options you can tell a teacher or you can fight this guy win or lose i wont matter he will respect you after or you can get a friend to protect you

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Well, insult/ embarrass him. Talk back at him. And talk to your counsellor abt it maybe

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No dont that will make him mad and give him an actual reason to bully,
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yea i agree with k?lesuper
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Well here's what ur gonna do. You're gonna go up to him. Grab his bookbag. Shine it up real nice. Turn that SOB sideways AND STICK IT STRAIGHT UP. HIS CANDY A$$

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If he is fat, say "Look who's talking!" However he might slap you in the face.

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just say what you think needs to be said. ok so i'm anti bulling and i'm making a web sit in a few days and i'm looking for people who get bullied to tell their story and i hope that bullies see what their are doing to people and i can help people and if you want you can email me and you can help me make the site if you want

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Bring a taser to the bathroom AT ALL TIMES. This includes at home too

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