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I'm pregnant! how do i tell family?!

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"Call MTV, I am PREGNANT!"
Just kidding.
Just tell them. Tell them it was a mistake on your part, and you wish for their forgiveness.No need to twist the truth. Just tell them it happened.

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Dont tell them it was a mistake i mean it probbaly was but you now have a baby's life in your stomach so you would bassicly be saying that the baby's life is a mistake. kinda mean....
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just tell the truth

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Same way you just did here. The damage is done. No need to gloss it over with a fancy speech. Ask for their understanding and support.

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Just say it.

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Hey there ;)
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Really.... TheDefiantOne

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Just tell them that you are pregnant ..... you might want to tell your mom first and then have her break the news to your dad ( that is if your mom is understanding)

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Tell them. Nobody ever thought twice before doing it, so don't think twice about telling them...

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Bring it up casually like "I'd be nice have a kid" then someone agrees and you say wait i'm pregnant now!

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Talk to you're parents and ask for guidance since you are very young. You are pregnant so there should be nothing to hide. Also find a way to communicate everything to you're bf's family for they are also involved now. Hopefully all two families can come together to find a solution to you're situation

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bf got arrested. :(
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Wow that's not good. Hopefully if it's not to bad then he'll get out and plan together to tell each others families of you're situation
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he did something sick.... ugh. he aint getiin out for awhile.!
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I don't think I wanna know. Now you have to ask yourself: did I make a right choice with this guy?
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of course not:(
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Now you're gonna have to make a critically important decision Ms Dean about this baby now. You have to ask yourself if you're ready to have a baby. Will the father be around for the baby. Are you ready to take a step to be a parent at such a young age and lose all you're freedom to do things you still want to do but will be difficult with a baby to take care of. Put you're thinking cap on and marinate all these things I just told you. In the end you will decide what's best for you and no one else
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Buy your mom and dad a worlds best grandma and grandpa mug, they will say im not one, then say you are now;)

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That's actually pretty good.
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lol great idea
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tell your family about it in a calm manner...tell them the truth as soon as possible before they'll know it from somebody else...but choose the right timing so that the conversation will go smoothly..

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Just by saying it.

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Seriously...just go ahead and add pregnancy, period, and birth control under your interests in your profile. :P
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Please not now. I'm having some problems right now. :(
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Can I talk to you about it?
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Aww...I'm sorry. What's wrong?
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Check my newest question.
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Okay...
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I've been there! I know how scary it can be for you, but you and your family will get through it. Once you have your son/daughter everything in your life will change. The life you know is now your son or daughters life. I found out I was pregnant and I sat my folks down and said "There is something I need to tell you" Right away my mom said "Your pregnant!?!?" I said "Yes" they said many things to me but time passed and the relieve I felt after I told them took so much stress off me and I felt so much better as will you. This baby your carrying is not a mistake, everything in the world happens for a reason. Just start buying diapers, lots and lots of them haha....I have 3 sons now and my parents love all 3 of them to death. Everything will be ok for you, just get the courage to sit your parents down and tell them, there going to find out sooner than later. Good luck.

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Hi Djm you must of had very understanding parents. These kids did the deed and now they're in a pickle. How is it not a mistake. This girl probably still lives with her parents and the boyfriend the same so they have no sense of responsibility in life. They probably still go to high school so it's really going to be tough they decide to keep the baby. The freedom they have as you know it is lost now and it's not fair to the parents that they now have to take care of a new baby. The word Protection and Safe sex doesn't mean nothing to these kids anymore. You are one of the few that made it and everything is well with you now but the best thing to do is educate these kids to wait when they're adults and lived life because having children at times takes away those freedoms one had before. I commend you for doing well with yourself so please don't feel offended by my words for they don't relay to you.
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Buy little shoes for a baby and give them to your parents one casual day and place them next to your parents and say; "you wanna know who these are for?" and they'll say:"sure" and then say " for my baby" or something along the lines of that.

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You get them very drunk then you kind of whisper it out to where the person next to you only hears you, then when they have to double check and ask you again, you change the story and tell them something else then by the time you have your baby. When they ask you "Why didn't you tell me before that you were pregnant you tell them?" Answer: "But I did don't you remember that time we all got drunk at your house and then you'll have them wondering whether you are telling them the truth then say "oh wait you passed out that's why you probably don't remember."

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Bad idea
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nice C:
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yea. idk. never been in that situation. i would probably just tell them.

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just be like i need to talk and tell them your pregnant but you have to make sure they are claim when you tell them like talk to them about your life then just throw it out or ask how they would feel if they were a grandparent

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lol i love you guys. buht i just found out.... i AM NOT PREGGERS(:
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lol okay love you to and well thats good
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duh(:
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but i want to be a father im great with kids sure im 16 but i still want a baby i want a little girl cuz i am going tot name her Cresent Star
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awh(: well if i was prego, i couldn't have helped. lol ur not the baby daddy
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i know im just saying i want a kid like my ex i got her preg and i wanted the baby so bad but she had a miscarge
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:( sorry
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tell them and explain why you did it

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just tell them and explain that it was an accident

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tell them

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Write them a letter? How old are you?

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Be all like mom my boyfrined did it

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Just tell them because at the end they will find out yup. :) just try

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